talking to his crew at the time. It was the first time my husband & I met this woman & her husband. I started to laugh and told her my husband is off limits, I told her I don't belive in sharring partners. I also told her she could hit on any memebers of my husband's crew. Should I have just ignore her?
2006-09-22 18:45:36 · 20 answers · asked by pmz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You reacted rather well, I'd say. Depending on the circumstance of course, I would have aso (privately, and tactfully) told her that having the cover of being drunk does not give her the right to say that to my husband, nor does it excuse her rather slutty behavior. But good for you for not letting it go - those types of situations can be difficult to react to sometimes because you are shocked at first.
And do keep an eye on her! Just because someones put a few back doesn't mean they completely lose the ability to monitor what you say.
2006-09-22 18:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said the right thing to her. However, now that she has sobered up, you need to sit down and have a talk with that woman. Nip it in the bud right now, and always stand up for what's yours. And after you have this talk, get away from her, distance yourself, she's no friend. You would always have to watch her around your man.
I'm not the jealous type, but let me tell you if some woman drunk or sober hits on my fellow, you can believe it that I will call her on the carpet just that quick. This woman was so disrespectful to you, and I'm certain she does this with any man. JUST WATCH HER!!!!!AND STAY AWAY IF YOU CAN. If you can't and must come in contact with her, tell her every chance you get what a sorry piece of humanity she is. She'll get the message then.
2006-09-24 13:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WATCH OUT!!!! You cannot trust her! Even men that don't want to cheat are flattered by the attention of slutty women. She is the worst kind of tramp to hit on a married man. She will try to be your friend too. Then she can be "friends" with both of you and that will only lead to trouble because she has already made her true intentions known! Don't ignore her, just stay on top of your game. She is sneaky!
2006-09-23 01:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jenlvegas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, ignoring her will only give her more reason to chase ur husband and it might send the wrong signal to ur husband. you were right when u told her right away that you would not tolerate an affair between her and your husband.. that will be a two-in-one action, a sort of warning to her and ur hubby.. btw, u shud have told her husband to take her home before she does more damage to their reputation.. let me tell u that i also admire the way u handled the situation calmly...
2006-09-23 02:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by sen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want from your husband? Do you want to share him..If you do that is all fine but I cant imagine a woman not wanting to be in love with the man she loves...you are worth way more than sharining especially if you are married....isnt that why we committed our wombs? Do not forget who you are....the individual who changes the life of most....He is either with you or exploring...do you need that? He needs to make you feel like a million bucks or move on...You are a woman and he is wasting your time by idle chit chat....lets get it rollin
2006-09-23 02:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by kitty h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in situations like that it is really hard to say what to do without really being there. sometimes its best to just say nothing if you know its going to lead to trouble then other times if your honest with the other person in a none hostile voice then maybe the two of you would just laugh it up and forget about it cause you know she probly wont even remember it anyways
2006-09-23 02:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you said to her already should suffice. Laugh it off and play it cool is always the best option I reckon. Make it known that you don't consider her a threat and that her actions are amusing yet out of line to you.
2006-09-23 01:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She was drunk. Remind her of what she said when she sobers up like the next time you see her. Also tell your husband what she said, word of advice never keep anything like that from him, it lets him know you know another woman is interested.
2006-09-23 05:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by benrumson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't make a point of hanging out with this couple, sounds like trouble. Mostly just ignore what she said as she probably won't remember it, but like I said, I wouldn't want to hang out too much with them.
2006-09-23 01:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by Chloe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by letting her know right up front you werent going to put up with it. If I was you, I would keep a very close watch on her. Trust your hubby, but not her.
2006-09-23 01:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋