I am male, 23, in love with a chemistry professor who is in the early 30s in college. Do you think that I should confess that I have a feeling for her? Is it highly possible for female professors to see
male students as guys? my look is .........................normal in a good way. According to my sister, I look like......................a grandpa at KFC. It means NOT too bad right? the professor's look is SOOOOO cute and very attractive. Whenver she pronouces a long S sound in class, it makes me crazy.... I really want to hear your rational/standard/ordinary/accurate comment.
2006-09-22 18:43:04 · 7 answers · asked by smilecow28 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
There is a chance if you are not her student or ever will be in one of her classes. If she is in the same college/school/department with you, forget it in any circumstances.
She has a moral and ethical code she has to honor. You don't.
She has a job. You don't.
She is highly educated. You aren't yet.
In short, after reading your comments again, I can only say, again, forget it.
2006-09-22 18:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wait till the end of the term, then talk to her. But remember that college profs get fired for seeing students all the time. Do you want to damage her reputation, or even more to the point, would she think it worth it? Go ahead and ask her, but God protect her... If you are close to graduating, then tell her you would love to see her then, if she'll have you. Otherwise, go bang a cheap sorority chick, and petend it's her.
2006-09-22 19:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the infatuation as it is... but don't confess that to her or you'll be thoroughly heart-broken. Unless if you're willing to wait until you graduate, you might want to see her again especially when you become a professional, too.
When I was in college, I, too, had a crush on my professor. My big-mouthed seatmate "jokingly" announced it in class... "Professor, I think this guy's in loved with you." I blushed and was really embarrassed. Everyone else was already laughing at me. Just to ease my embarrassment, I "jokingly" confirmed it... "Yes, it's true, professor." Our professor simply said, "Well that's good to know. Falling in love with your professor means falling in love with the subject, too. Keep it up." That was it... and it was said coldly. I lost interest thereafter and thought to myself, "Nah... forget about it."
2006-09-22 20:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mike N. D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This can be a normal reaction towards feminine behaviorism's and actions, such as hair, words, how she walks and makes you feel in love. It is really inside what matters like if she is really nice to you and you are nice to her and you two are good friends. Same for the opposite females might like you for the way you look and act even if you are really nasty and rude to them. aye! I don't get it! well it is all shrinkology stuff.
2006-09-23 14:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by Golden Ivy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT tell her, it will only embarrrass you and leave you flat..
She is miles above you. do well in class, pay attention , be calm , be cool, be friendly , but do not be agressive. If she is as smart as you think she will not have an affair with a student. If she is stupid enough to have an affair with you, you loose anyway you look at it.. Stupid pup; grow up a little. You are there for an education, zip your fly
2006-09-22 19:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by mr.phattphatt 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
every student, male or female, always have crushes on professors, teachers, etc. If you think it will be o.k by the rules and given the whole thing has the appropriate seriousness, i would say go talk to her
2006-09-22 18:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by mar 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not a chance... Especially if you are in her class.
:o)
Jerry
2006-09-22 20:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋