2006-09-22 18:42:58 · 14 answers · asked by kudi_ritu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this is my answer to move to level to so i'm putting my best efoort in due of the question.
I know you've heard the "there are people in the world who are more unhappy than you", but it doesnt work. Here's what worked on me when I passed through this time. Read Robin S. Sharma's 'the monk who sold his ferrari'. I am not advertising here but it was the book which helped me. Remember if you feel unheartened, you have a caring friend-
vishal_willpower@yahoo.co.in.
Be happy and have the smile you have right now on your face forever.
Yours truly
Vishal
2006-09-22 18:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by vishal_willpower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you obviously have to get into a situation where you would meet someone. Become involved in something that you would enjoy. Volunteer work in very rewarding. At a hospital or nursing home. You can get a companion there and have a safe relationship with someone else who is in need and very lonely as well. It may sound boring but would make you feel so good. That's what I would do.
2006-09-22 18:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by susie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same exact way, dont know what to do, or where to look for help. all i really need is someone to hug, and hold for while, maybe that will make me feel better and then i could forget some of my problems, and feel better about myself...ive been alone for a couple of years myself, and havent really wanted to date anyone until just recently, but now i dont know anyone around here, i just moved, and i am kinda picky, and well all the people around here know each other and they are all so suck up and dont want to get to know me, so they just act like they dont want to talk or get to know me....only if i could find someone who would care to just hang out and be a friend, then i would be a better person, and life would be worth living again....sorry i havent helped you, but if we were anywhere near each other, im sure that we could help each other...hope you find someone, soon, and then things will get better.....me too......
2006-09-22 18:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was had a same problam before 1 year now iam alright ,always keep u busy in any work ,pray god and think that someone comes in future to cares u after trying all this then also u have a problem mail me at kingsriram143@yahoo.co.in
2006-09-22 20:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by king 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many ways to remain happy... Analyse what your interests are, Know yourself... Do everything to cheer you up at all times... Make friends and the happiness automatically vcomes... First take it out of your mind that you have no one...Think you have everyone for you, and the change in the direction of thought will automatically change the way you look at things
2006-09-22 18:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by Little Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want time pass then books are the best.You can buy big novels like harry potter and read them.If you really feel alone,then go outside and make friends.A pet,yes!You can buy any pet you like and care for him/her.Slowly you will love him/her and he/she will also like you.He/she will also care for you.And you know I just tell you one thing You can enjoy the nature.Natural things give us more happiness than man made things can give.So enjoy the nature!!!Gardens are best for happiness because so much greenery is around,fresh air is there ,chirping birds are there,what else do we need?You will really feel happy if you follow it.
2006-09-22 19:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by redrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know the feeling I had to go out on my own even though I was very shy to beat it as got fed up of staying in because didnt know any one but it doesnt come to you - you have got to go and make it happen for you, join evening classes, you can go for a meal and start talking to people etc there are many people who are lonely out there like us, how about people at work invite some of them out...it is hard but you will get there
2006-09-22 19:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by flowerpower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus said I will never leave you or forsake you. My wife left me nearly 5 years ago. I've been alone ever since, yet i am never alone. God has put people in my life that I could have never found. Trust Him. If you need someone to chat with, my email is open.
2006-09-22 18:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by kat62961 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If some are alone, mind you only some are alone, they are so by choice. Go out and look for better things in life.
2006-09-22 18:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try make more and more friends nad doot ever feel that oyu are alone god is always with you
2006-09-22 18:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋