my friend is really nice to me like pretty much all the time! but then she just like gets all weird with me and i dont know why. it almost seems like she hates me. But i dont know so...what should i do??
2006-09-22 18:26:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just ask her why has her attitude change towards you. she probably dosent even realizes it friends shouldnt have a hard time talking about things
PS sometimes people change is has nothing to do with you
2006-09-22 19:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is pretty common in some friendships. this could be a sign of jealousy most of the time cuz i know this was how things were with me and my bestfriend. but there came a point where we couldnt stand each other and we both just bursted and let everything out. we both told each other to f*ck off and stuff and we ignored each other completely for a couple of days. but eventaully, we both realized that our friendship was too good to just break off. so we finnaly talked to each other about how we really felt and stuff. we realized that even though we felt jealously towards each other we still cared for each other as brothers, good buddies. i guess the thing in ur case is that when u have a good friend, they have certain expectations for u. so when u have faults, they notice them quickly and are hurt by them. so guess, u both just need to clear things up by having a nice long talk. good luck, take care.
2006-09-23 01:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she doesn't hate you or mean to act that way, she could be bothered by something that she doesn't feel comfortable talking about. She could be bipolar. Just try to be patient with her and it wouldn't hurt, to ask her if everythings ok and remind her that you're there for her, if she ever wants to talk about anything.
2006-09-23 01:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I know exactly how you feel. Ask your friend what is wrong. Thats the only way to find out. Then try and clear it all up. Hope everything goes ok. Take care!!~
2006-09-23 01:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lil-Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk 2 her. Maybe theres somthin goin wrong in her life. There might be somthin goin on at home that she would rather not tell but express. Try to make her feel comfortable around u. Wish I could help.!! ;)
2006-09-23 01:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by Waz Up? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been there. don't be scared. try to talk to her what's bothering her. because maybe its a family problem or something else.. for sure by and by she will tell you the truth. and tell her that's what friends are for. isn't it? just be the patient one and understand the situation.
2006-09-23 01:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by marav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should talk to her and ask her why she's acting like that.But try not to say it a mean kind of way then you mit end the friendship.so be careful.You can say how you feel when she does that or why she is.
2006-09-23 01:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by Cristina lynn spears 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps these mood swings have something to do with pms.
Let her know when "she gets all wierd". You'll probably be able to tie it in to a cycle.
2006-09-23 01:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her whats going on, i dont know the whole situation but by the looks of it, you guys wont be staying friends for that long...but good lcuk
2006-09-23 01:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her whats wrong? It could be that she is jealous of u
2006-09-23 01:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋