I AM IN A 5 YEAR RELATIONSHIP AND I HAVE A BABY WITH HIM BUT I MET THIS GUY FROM EUROPE AND I REALLY LIKE HIM AND I FEEL I MIGHT WANT SOMETHING ELSE BUT I LOVE MY FIENCE I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT DO.HELP.PLEASE.
2006-09-22 18:25:54 · 14 answers · asked by TOOTS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You already have known your man for five years and he's the father of your baby. You love him. You are INFATUATED with this guy you met online from Europe. Have you actually MET him, like in person? And not just online chatting/emailing? If you leave the man that you love for the guy you met online, will he leave Europe for you? Or will he send you a ticket for you and your baby to go to Europe to be with him? Are you sure he's not married with five kids in Europe? Are you sure he's even a man? You're just infatuated with all the daydreaming and fantasies that are running through your head right now. You have nothing with this online guy, and you don't know him. You just have a crush on him, that's all. What to do? Tell your man about him! Be open! And maybe you and your man can both be friends with him! That way, it will take all the excitement out of this 'mysterious' "secret' thing you have going on. When those factors are taken out, your fantasies will stop and you'll realize he's just a guy on a computer that you and your man are friends with.
2006-09-22 18:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know that a lot of Europeans are trying to come to America right now, and using hooking up with Americans online as a reason to get a flight over here and get their foot in the door. Not to say this is the case with you, but beware of "love for citizenship" tactics. Also, if you have a baby and a 5 year relationship, I say stick with it if your only reason for wanting to leave is meeting some guy online you don't even know. This guy could be some psycho killer or want to rob you for all you know. Let it go.
2006-09-22 18:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by reconnermom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound more confused than unfaithful.
Ever heard of the term 'Adultery'?
Anyways, you need to sit in a calm corner and analyse your words.
What were you doing online?? Searching for a soulmate?? If yes, isnt your fiance already yours??
Its better to have a person who loves you so much in your backyard than one you have never seen personally.
Personally, I feel your anguish.
Make a note of all the things you would like in a person.. Be decisive. You have a kid and now your responsibility is to give him a decent, respectable and loveable parents.
The verdict is all yours.
2006-09-22 18:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your fience then you should already no what to do, and incase your wondering look deep down your heart. and it's a true saying!
2006-09-22 18:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by Cherry-Bomb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said the key word...love. if you love him there should be no one else. You need to talk to your man, Sounds like ther is something missing in your relationship. Something you're getting with this other man. Talk to him and see if you can work it out.If not due him the honor of leaving him before you take up with this other man.
2006-09-22 18:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by patricia_hyland72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U must be with ur fiancee but if u be far from eachother for a while it's better to know how u love him!
if u be friend with others plz be honest with ur bf and let him know
2006-09-22 18:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by marjan m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in a bind my dear. first off, you realize that your fiance is the father of your child. secondly, you must elavulate both sides of the situation because a child is involved. third, long distance romance doesnt pay any bills so you can disregard the guy from europe.
i sincerely do, from the bottom of my heart, wish you the best of luck.
vote for me, please.
2006-09-22 18:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by soar_2307 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Met on line? Um, no. Stick with what you have. Imagine what it would be like without your fiance.
2006-09-22 18:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by pump_runner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for all you know you dont have a clue on this guy you ment the best thing for you to do is stop talking to him and get married if any thing do it for your child
2006-09-22 18:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love your fiancee stick with him, you don't know what the guy from europe like.
2006-09-22 18:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by kurdapya_007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋