My boyfriend of 2 years is questioning my love for him because we don't have sex very often do guys really think this way??? Of course I love him I just don't feel like we need the sex to be happy and he does what should I do?? Do you have to have sex all the time to show someone you love them?? I've got too much on my mind to focus on sex or get excited about sex is there anything wrong with that??
2006-09-22 18:24:20 · 8 answers · asked by MelC 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
me and him are both 21
2006-09-22 18:31:04 · update #1
I'm having the same problem with my husband of six years. It's funny how when men are single, they can just screw anybody and it's no big deal, but when they get into a serious relationship, all of a sudden sex=love. You are not wrong, but it's really about finding a common ground when it comes to intimacy. Find something that excites both of you, and make time for each other. It's really easy to lose that connection when life gets busy (wait 'till/if you have kids!). If you're really committed to each other, it will work out.
2006-09-22 18:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by paperclip 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex should not be so important to guys all the time, but it is. So, to make my husband feel special I have sex or just try to be spontaneous more often. The unfortunate truth is, there are nasty women out there that WILL sleep with your boyfriend/husband if you don't. I know this the hard way. In the long run it is worth it for me because I know he is satisfied and even when I'm stressed out from work I enjoy the many orgasms. Good Luck!
2006-09-23 01:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jenlvegas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be a serious area of incompatibility. Sex is a very basic need and if one partner wants a lot and the other a little - that's a problem. So it's not that there's anything wrong with you - but the difference in desire could mean a significant issue in your relationship.
2006-09-23 01:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is only a material thing, i dont think there needs to be sex in a relationship to be happy its whats in your heart and if all he wants is sex then I'd say beat it and move on with my life. I mean if he is made cause you wont put out, then he needs help, and thats that
2006-09-23 01:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by ashton_rayzor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes guys need it all the time. When I was younger it was a drag, how old are you?? My sex drive is higher at 28 than it ever was at 18.
2006-09-23 01:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by darlanota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, sex is very important to us...in fact without it, there is not a relationship.....so you got to do whatever to get into the mood and keep him happy, or else he is going to get it somewhere else....if that is ok, then just tell him to go get it, and then come back home, but that is dangerous, and youll be jealous, so its your job.
2006-09-23 01:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the problem bad sex partner ? because if it were good you wouldnt be asking this question .
2006-09-23 01:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by gene r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand you have alot of things on your mind but you have to realize that is part of satisfying your man and that is one thing to keep your relationship going... us girls can hold out longer than guys but we do have to put some things aside and remember to please our man
2006-09-23 01:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋