Ladies, how would you feel if your husband said he hated having sex with you?
Let's say, if the next day after saying that, he wants some, would you give it to him?
2006-09-22 17:59:32 · 28 answers · asked by Carrie! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband said this to me yesterday, after telling me how much in love he is with his ex...HAHA.
2006-09-22 18:03:20 · update #1
Hell No. He'd be going hungry, for a very long time.And then I would tell him how lousy he was . Just faking it all this time.that really blows their ego.
2006-09-22 18:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by joy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IMO, it would depend on the context in which it was said. If you were fighting at the time, or in a heated argument, maybe, perhaps a little leeway would be necessary. It is unusual for that to be said, and then the next day come crawling back.
I would never say something that cruel and mean to my wife. I would only imagine saying something like that to her, would indicate something more than just the entertainment value was the real problem.
Talk to him, find out what the deal is. If you're married, that is what is supposed to happen.
Then give him a while to think about it.
2006-09-23 02:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Panda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you both have a huge argument ? I mean that is cruel very very cruel if it was spontaneous . If it was in a heated discussion with both of you lobbing verbal nukes at each other its still cruel but i can that more readly happening and have less of a problem with it . Does he like sex a certain way that you dont like. If he said he doesnt like having sex but turns around and wants to have sex , obviously he likes it enough for the short term all tho it might be wearing on him long term tho .I think if its a sexual compatability thing some sort of compromise should be worked out .
2006-09-23 01:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are a nice looking woman. If a man ever told me that I would have a major talk. That is abuse. Sex is a very important and sensual part of a marriage. It is an art form to express love for one another. Also, it is a bad sign that he talks about loving his ex and talking bad about you. You may want to consider counseling. It may cost a little bit of money, but it may help clear your head and help your relationship.
2006-09-23 01:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by souplane21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know There no way for me to say that to my wife... she was my first person to have sex and will be my first and last forever... Sometime yes I am tired too much work but same time I need to be more time with my wife too.
You are a beautiful woman and I don't understand why he would say that those things to you. why can't he just say I am tired i would try tmw? not say hate having sex with you.
Damn, that really freaking rude and now think about ex??? damn! He will be so sorry if he lose you.. I don't think he understand that words does hurt you alot. and He need to know that needs to stop saying those things.
Ihave 2 kids and 3rd on the way and that made the best sex with my wife and she gave me the best kids in our lives.
I truly sorry man like him for saying that to you. He does makes me mad and wished he have to learn to understand you more better and make it easy to talk about it if there a sex plm or why?
I would kick him the *** and beat him down for talking to my sister like that smile. hang in there sister, y ou are strong woman like my wife. You are beautiful and don't ever forget that and also great personality see on yahoo 360 smile. your kids very lucky to have you and he going to missed out like this.
2006-09-23 01:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband said he hated having sex with me, and we go two weeks without having sex would create a major problem. We probably would not be together. I would have to know why he hated having sex with me....It is something you could talk about...Yeah I would probably give him some just to keep my sanity....
2006-09-23 01:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anastacia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him he can have her. Go out with some friends and have a ladies night out. Leave him home to choke the chicken alone. There is no way I would give it up after that.
2006-09-23 02:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. I wouldn't give it to him if he said the day before he hated having sex with me.
I'd say, if you hate having sex with me, why do you want sex now?
And then when it was all said and done, I'd give him the best sex ever.
2006-09-23 01:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by obscured_obloquy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would feel awful. I know that my self esteem would be shot down. If he would ask to have sex with me and it was only sex. I would say no!!! Especially, knowing that the man I loved stooped to this level.
2006-09-24 03:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of loser are you married to??? Run as fast as possible from this moron! Your too cute to be in a relationship like that! You deserve the respect a true MAN would give you!
2006-09-23 01:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋