2006-09-22 17:56:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You really need to post this kind of thing? This is all you could think of? Lame.
2006-09-22 17:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by Island Queen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may lessen your chances of marrying HIM, but if your virginity stays intact, that's a POWERFUL asset in these days.
If you DO go down on him, make him wear a condom. You can catch diseases in your mouth too, and that's SOooo more disgusting than anything I can think of!
The guy might be sweet and look nice and clean, but you don't know ~FOR SURE~ who else he's been with...or who she OR HE has been with etc. Protect yourself, girlfriend, because he might have a disease like HIV or AIDS and not even know it. So how could he tell you, if he doesn't know? Best wishes. Use a condom.
2006-09-22 18:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by wo_manifest 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is such a trap that so many girls feel they have to do to get a guy.
Let's face it, do you really like the guy or do you feel obligated to go down on him to keep him? If you are going down on a guy simply to keep the relationship, then he is simply using you for his own pleasure.
Wait for the right one, you may not have a steady date. But if you are looking for Mr. Right, he won't truly care whether you go down on him. After all, if you are holding out and waiting for a real relationship, he is more likely to realize you are a quality person and less likely to cheat on him. So don't worry about waiting. In the long run, you will end up with a better relationship.
2006-09-22 17:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by Searcher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I would say that you may still be able to get married, but there is a much greater chance of having an unfaithful partner. When there is something fairly routine that one partner refuses to do, the other usually convinces him or herself that they can do without it. In time however, needing something that they are used to can be overwhelming and add to the desire to cheat.
I'd say you are better off selecting a partner that has never had oral sex, so they have no memory or expectations in the area. Finding someone who has experienced it will increase your chances of having someone who wants or needs it.
2006-09-22 18:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No,
You will just lessen your chances of getting married to a guy who wants a wife who will do that.
Believe it or not that is not a number one priority of all men.
2006-09-22 18:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by minuteblue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you refuse to go down on a guy? It's not a bad thing. I just don't get it.
Most guys LOVE when girls go down on them, so it probably will lessen your chance of getting married.
2006-09-22 17:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by Sara 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
depends some guys it is really important to never ever ever get that again in life if they marry you. I am married but when i was dating i would refuse to go down on a girl unless she went down on me that usually got them to change their mind
I know the thinking is if they love you they won't care but in today's society sex comes before love so if you refuse he may leave before he gets a chance to really know you
2006-09-22 18:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Big Daddy R 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes
2006-09-22 18:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by Joshua C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy cant respect your feelings, he's not worth being married in the first place. If you don't feel like it, you shouldn't be made to do it...sex is suppose to be pleasurable for both people. not one more than the other.
2006-09-22 17:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by ralahinn1 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. Your husband will simply be forced to cheat on you and shoot some jizem in someone elses face. Probably a much better looking woman then you. It is simply a fact.
2006-09-22 18:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by jaredshouse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you'll likely hate me for this, but here goes. Follow the Lord ( www.jsm.org = SonLife Radio ), ask the Lord for someone in your life that will love you and not want you only for a good time. (He gave me someone like that by the way) And that will be closest you will ever come to living "happily ever after"...best wishes.
2006-09-22 18:01:16 · answer #11 · answered by raininmyshoe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋