I'm 13 very pretty(blonde curlly hair,very skinney, blue and green eyes, great scence in fasion) but the guys just all stare and smile at me lastly I havent been asked out and I need to know what im doing wroung! oh yah I'm 13 any advice!
2006-09-22 17:52:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Ok yes of coarse I always smile back and if you guys think I brag like this all the time I don't i'm just trying for u guys 2 understand what I look like thats all
2006-09-22 17:59:10 · update #1
Ok 3 things.. 1 I don't have 1 blue eye and one green they change colours, 2, I do have a dad who lives here and hes a great dad and 3 I don't mean like dating but you know a really close guy friend
2006-09-22 18:02:27 · update #2
First of all, if you are dating at 13 there is about a 90% probability you will be sexually active by the time you are 16 and very likely you'll be pregnant out of wedlock before you are 20. You shouldn't be dating until 16. What in the hell is wrong with your mother to let you date at that early age? I ask about your mother because I will bet $10,000 you don't have your natural father in the home--that's why you are so desperately seeking the love of a male, to take the place of your real dad who is not in the picture.
Second, the guys are probably looking at you and smiling because you said you have one green eye and one blue eye. I would smile at someone like that also.
2006-09-22 17:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Curious 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your answer is in your question twice!!!... YOUR 13!!!! not 18 not 17 not 21 your 13! Hence your atill a kid. Be a kid, you can have boyfiends but the , "going out" thing is only going to get you into trouble and you know well what that is. Hang out in groups instead. I may not be your age but sometimes stepping back in time is a better way of dealing with these issues. Your obviously a smart girl. It's quite normal to feel this way. You just need to remember how old you are. Ask yourself, "am I really old and mature enough to handle the consiquenses of dating?" I doubt it.
2006-09-23 00:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by burrgump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie thats just the thing. YOUR 13. And guys at that age are still a little bit akward. I'm 15 going on 16 and I've learned that guys start really getting confidence in talking to girls at around 14-15. 13 they're still getting used to the idea. Besides, in high school older guys that have even more confidence start noticing you and will ask you out. For now chill and let them come to you. Trust me. They'll come. And one really good piece of advice I've learned. NEVER look for the guy. Let him look for you. If he really wants you that bad he'll come around and let him prove he wants you. For now chill, k?
2006-09-23 00:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by dotbrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not doing anything wrong, 13yr old boys are scary and they dont know how to act around pretty girls, especially if they are around other guys. If you want to go out with a guy, u are going to have to ask him. You dont have to be direct, ask something like do you wanna go to mcdonalds after school or something. Honestly though you dont need to be thinking about boys at your age, focus on school and making lasting friendships
2006-09-23 01:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you smile back? Do they compliment you? Guys that age are scared to death of girls, especially pretty ones. You have to get up close and smile and look them straight in the eyes until they get that you are into them.
2006-09-23 00:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'll come in any second, try to talk to them be friendly, because every guy likes a beautiful FRIENDLY girl to be with.They are shy, you are 13 wait a little and you'll have them all behind you. Wish you luck.
2006-09-23 00:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by elipra91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not doing anything wrong, some guys are intimidated, by a pretty girl. What i'm saying is, maybe they are afraid to ask you out, thinking you'd say no.
2006-09-23 00:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just nervous. They would never have the courage to ask a babe like you out. Are you kidding me? It will come, or you could play a game
2006-09-23 01:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Pink*Sugar*Love 8) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might too perfect for guys to date?
guys are usually apprehensive about asking a 'model' out...
u r blessed w gd genes...
so let nature takes it course...
if not...time to learn to take the initiative...
ask the guy out...
chat more and be more like a fren rather like some fairy of their dreams
perhaps...that will give them enough courage...
good luck...
2006-09-23 00:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by juz_moi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask a better question?
I think you're lying...your description of yourself sounds fake...if you really wanna know about guys...well...you're 13. thats like seventh grade, right? you shouldn't worry too much...just be friendly, be yourself...whatever.
2006-09-23 03:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by elisabeta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋