hi, my husband doesnt say he loves me, he doesnt say miss u,always shouts on me without any reason. doesnt sleep with me he touches me only when he wants sex. he doesnt sleep with me.
he doesnt want to spend time with me. i m good looking beautiful,caring, educated wat should i do?
2006-09-22 17:48:57 · 22 answers · asked by carrie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Choice# 1) stay and take it . Choice#2 ) anything other than #1
2006-09-22 18:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously there are some problems within the marriage. Usually, when men behave the way yours is, there is another person he is saying and doing those things with. I know this is the last thing you wanted to hear, but if you cannot communicate with your husband and discuss what is going on, you might need to become a jr detective and get the hard facts before you act on anything. Being good looking, caring, and educated does not make you exempt from having someone step out on you. I wish you well.
2006-09-23 00:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by SissyK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u know after a while everyone gets tired of seeing each other. I think just spiceing things up a little bit would help him paying attention to you. And about the i love you, i cant ever get that out of my boy friend so i say it first and if he doesnt say it back just ask him whats wrong. Im not no expert but im pretty sure its not that he doesnt mean what he's doing, he's probably like everyother man thinking they're wife already new! But good luck. Hope things work out
- Patricia -
2006-09-23 00:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by patricia c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was reading all your questions, you have found alot things what your husband been doing to you. and cheating behind your back. I think you should end this asap. He didn't want to have sex, tell you love you or missed you, didn't sleep with you, etc. found nail marks on his back. that shows that he did have sex with someone.
Really, it time to end it and get the heck out of here becasue reason of that. You said youare good looking, beautiful, caring, educated. there are men out there looking person to share and does want share happy life with you.
My wife and I been married for 9 years. We have 2 kids age 3 and 2 and 3rd on the way due in march. I love my wife more than anything in the world and I thanks god for her. and having beautiful kids.. also you know that man like me there men out there like me feel the same way i feel about my wife. Men does feel for you. If you staying with same husband and you will never find anyone. but when you do leave and found someone better. How I know my second marriage. my first didn't work out at all but glad I end it. If i didn't I wouldn't be here with my wife and kids now. smile.
2006-09-23 01:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is do you have kids? If you do, then no don't just dump him, you need to resolve. If you don't have kids you are more free than you think. I would still get to the bottom of it and question him. If he can't talk in a civilized manner and starts to yell, have a plan. We woman get emotional. Put that aside and have a plan. If he yells, does he get violent? Does he get abusive. If no, then talk to him. You will not know anything until you ask him. Good luck
2006-09-23 01:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by sal77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try couples therapy, and talk to your husband. It sounds like he only has you around for sex. Not to be rude or anything.If things don't work out, move out, maybe tat will knock some sense into him. If all else fails, I suggest getting a good divorce attorney. Good luck! If you want to talk you can email me at smp441215@yahoo.com .
2006-09-23 00:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by Stuck in the Middle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a communication problem. So first try to talk to him, showing him that you are concerned abt whats happening without any kind of accusation or whatever. Show your love to him as usual. It could be his work stress or other stress that he is venting out on you. THought its not fair, sometimes it pays to show the extra love and a listening ear to your hubby.
2006-09-23 02:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by pearlyalexis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him... darling u deserve much better than him... i know its hard cause u probably love him... but he is not giving u the things u deserve! i think its better for u to have a honest talk with him, and if he doesnt change his attitude, just change the husband
2006-09-23 01:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by kramellou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound much too immature to be married. Since you are educated, do something to improve your life......
By seeking the advise of a good divorce attorney.
2006-09-23 00:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him hw u feel, I totally understand you cuz I went through the same problem with my ex. YOU should tell him that you feel neglected and unapreciated, that should light up a bulb in his head. If he doesn't get it maybe you should leave the bastard, you deserve better. Good luck!!
2006-09-23 00:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by rom-e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋