2006-09-22 17:33:11 · 20 answers · asked by Mr.Death 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what the point for me? everything! be a kid get beat up by parents, telling you dumb deaf son no good, why do I have you in my life, all those things I have been going through.
I am married man for 9 years iwth my wife and 2 kids age 3 and 2 and 3rd on the way. I have a true family tells me themself my wife kiss me good bye everyday and kiss me when she is home. she tells me how much she love me. and my daughter and I was eating dinner table and my daughter said "Daddy?" I said "Yes sweetie?" She said "Daddy I love you so very much" my son said "Daddy I love you very so much too!" Wow, that blew me away knowing that I am a great husband and father in the family. and I have change my generation from my parents being bad and hateful and I have change to be the best one for next generation and my kids will not be like my family they gonig to be like daddy and mommy.
That why the point of marriage and kids. Knowing how imporant to me in life with kids smile. You know i never want kids just want my wife until that day she said i am pregant do you know what I told her. I am ready to be a father. It take 2 people to take care of this and made this baby. That night she was born I was so scared to hold her and when I hold her, she looked at me and smiled at me. and It changed my LIFE from there. I thanks My kids for really show me how to love them and them love me back.
I am very proud father and husband. Proud to keep my last name and giving my son my last name to carry it for next grand son to have too. if not, I am not going to feel sorry about that At least I changed something better this generation.
2006-09-22 18:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? Ummm. I guess it's one of those things where, if you have to ask, you won't get it. Like, for instance, what's the point of having a computer, going on websites, asking questions? For some people, it's just killing time, staving off boredom. For others it's a passion, an obsession. You can't imagine not doing it. Your life must have been a sad, empty wasteland before computers. Marriage and kids can be like that. Some people do it just because it's what people do, keeps them from being alone. Others feel passion for another and a desire to share their lives with children. Don't do the bored thing; either be obsessed with your family or don't have one.
2006-09-23 00:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Marriage-Something started in the old days that people find necessary to continue as tradition. What separates man from animal
Kids-we are fertile cant help it
Marriage and Kids-overrated half of marriages fail and the kids end up with messed up views on relationships.
2006-09-23 00:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly K 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think that it is totally up to you.Some people are good with a wife and kids and others are better off not having a wife and kids.Its your choice in life.Either way, I am sure you will do fine.After all your life is what you make of it.
2006-09-23 00:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by Gin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no point really. They'll try to tell you that there is something wrong with you if you don't think so but the truth is that some people just need emotional security and can't acknowledge those who don't. They like to put us down and call us things like self-centered, selfish, immature, unemotional and such. I say back the f' off. If you want to get married and have kids, it's your life, do what you want. But don't put me down for living mine in a way that suits me in order to make yourself feel superior. And I don't need your pity either.
2006-09-23 00:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by elk312 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
if you have to ask that question then my answer will not mean anything to you. There are many feelings involved that are hard to explain to a person who is not ready for nor are they mature enough for the feelings that are involved. Then of course you would also have to add commitment into the mix as well. Then there is also the fact that you shouldn't be self centered
2006-09-23 00:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To exercise selflessness and for companionship - to give and receive love and provide a sense of self
2006-09-23 00:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You end up like Al Bundy lmao
2006-09-23 00:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
hmm, well..... some people say if you havent married and have kids, you haven't lived. well im sure you dont want to be alone all your life and sit on you own in your little small cottage when you reach old age, life would be lonely
2006-09-23 00:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you have the need to ask us that then you should never ever go there, stay single for the sake of your future wife and kids...
2006-09-23 00:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋