2006-09-22 16:38:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Deciding who keeps what.
2006-09-22 16:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. BIG 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Admitting failure. Admitting that you both tried and it didn't work; admitting and realizing that you want more out of life and your relationships; admitting that we are only here once on this earth and to spend it with people who are not 'helping' us is not what we were meant to do during our brief stay. Telling the children - if you have them - was indeed one of the most difficult things -but on the positive side, reassuring them that they would have a secure future without seeing any fighting and hearing any bad words was rewarding enough. I'm on the other side and I wouldn't go back for anything...still upset that my family can't be 'together' but happy that my kids will know that I had a really tough decision to make and I made the right one for THEM.
2006-09-22 23:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by bcbound 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have kids...they do. I divorced when my kids were very young and I believed I was doing the right thing as I didn't want them to be exposed to the anger and hatred that could have developed. I was also very young and didn't have anyone to talk to for guidance.
If you do not have kids then its the emotional turmoil you will go through. Should I, shouldn't I? The perpetual roller coaster ride. It's a tough one no matter what happens with a divorce. Think about counseling first not matter who has to swallow their pride...try it! Good luck and God bless!
2006-09-22 23:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A bitter divorce in which the children are hurt and put right in the middle or used as a pawn.Also having to split everything even the debts acquired before the seperation and dissolution of marriage.
2006-09-22 23:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Getting a divorce is hard on everyone involved,the loneliness will set in eventually ,and losing someone you once loved enough to marry!
2006-09-22 23:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by SANDY G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
repenting...u regret ur divouce later on.......u realise ur reason for the divource was stupid u r still not happy n have lost a good lifepartner u feel miserable n think life was better then someone was there 2 take care of u love u guide u but now u r alone ALL ALONE
2006-09-22 23:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by leo_with_elegance 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me see,,there is lawyer fees,,child support,,maybe alimony,having to get your own place,When you get married it is for life and i think is a sin to divorce
2006-09-23 02:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by hekler1873 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have children, it would be how the divorce will impact them.
2006-09-22 23:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by Freaked out 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Finding out that he/she was right about some of the reasons you were a lousy partner.
2006-09-22 23:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Splitting everything; the house, the money and more importantly, the kids and, to a lesser extent, the friends.
2006-09-22 23:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Being alone and having to start all over again.
2006-09-22 23:41:22 · answer #11 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋