i love my boyfriend very much .. i dont need opinions about how im young i dont care .. i need advice .. hes a senior and im a junior wich means he is going away to college next year and when i ask if we are still going to be together he says he doesnt know .. and it hurts .. he doesnt know where hes going yet but i know he doesnt want to stay here but he doesnt know where he wants to go .. i dont want to hold him back but i also dont want him to go far bc i feel i wont see him as much and it sucks... what is going to happen i really dont want us to not be together hes the best thing thats ever happend to me =( helppp
2006-09-22 16:30:59 · 5 answers · asked by ~*Your Worth It*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Awww...poor thing. You must feel so insecure. I'll tell you what..this is something that happens EVERY SINGLE graduating class, every single year. It has gone on for decades, and there have been many movies made on 'coming of age'. no matter what you do...destiny is going to happen. Either the two of you will survive it as a couple, or the relationship will fizzle at one end or both. Either way, there's nothing you can do to stop the situation from happening. The best thing you can do is be the best 'you' you can be. Love him, stay true to yourself, and wish the BEST for him...it's the most loving thing you can do for him. Love is selfless...and that hurts, but it's beautiful. Give that to him. As the time nears, try not to be clingy and whiney. Instead, be impeccably gorgeous, smell wonderful, and treat him like you want to be treated. THAT'S what you want him to remember, right? BEST of luck to you!
2006-09-22 16:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by maynerdswife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't be upset, but you are young. With that said, it will hurt...It always does when someone you care about moves on or leaves. He is being totally honest with you, and I commend that. He doesn't want you to wait for him for he is going to be experiencing things that you hopefully will in a couple of years as well. Going off to College or even the Military is a whole new and even scary experience.
I wouldn't dwell on his leaving in a year....instead, be happy and enjoy the time you have together in the now.
Good luck!
2006-09-22 16:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, thats rough. Just wait till after the Holidays to c what happens, u will have a clearer head (and new Stuff).
2006-09-22 16:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by mr.ken_kennedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart ....
We have all been in a situation similar to this one at one point or another. As a lot of ppl have told me. Let him go .... If he returns to you then it was meant to be. If he doesnt then move on.
2006-09-22 16:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay with him
2006-09-22 16:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by hot stuffsdsvjvjbvhbdshbdshcbchb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋