6 months ago i found my boyfriend at a dating site by clicking on history.today i found him back at the same site,saying hes looking for feminine companionship.i know hes not cheating cause all the time hes not at work we are together.last time i busted him for it he said it was just a "social experiment".i feel terribly hurt and am not sure what to do--i know this is going to eat at me unless i resolve this.
2006-09-22 16:23:55 · 12 answers · asked by kelly r 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My wife and I have checked some dating sites to see if there is anyone we know from school or work just out of curiosity. Your b/f may be doing the same.
If he is with you all the time, then quit being insecure and checking up on him,"last time I busted him". Nothing can destroy a good relationship faster the jealousy
2006-09-22 16:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by whajagonado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A "Social Experiment" ???!!! RoTFL...well I'll give the guy a "B" for Balls on that one..
And you want to resolve ...what? What is there to resolve? He was on a dating site. If you believe he hasn't cheated on you nor doesn't intend to in the future...and you don't mind his lil so called 'experiment'...that's up to you..but if you want him to stop - then tell him that...if he insists on continuing his grand experiment...lol..then...it's up to you to decide to accept that or leave him ..but I don't see any real resolution here.
(and I didn't mean to make so light of it...I know that must have hurt)
2006-09-22 16:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a dating site and do a social experiment. Look for some male companionship and see how he feels about it.
2006-09-22 16:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have caught him looking for someone else before, (and lets not be naive here) then you should have expected it again. I wouldn't be able to trust him at all, and without trust you have nothing. He may be hoping someone better comes along. If a man is happy with you he wont need to "experiment" with anything, least of all looking for more women. His sights have obviously wandered elsewhere.
2006-09-22 16:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Reese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he is registered and signed up to chat, whats the big deal, he is probably just fantasizing. If he hasn't cheated yet than quit worrying about it. Men are voyeurs and are always checking women out. Are all the guys who ogle the cheerleaders at sports events intending to cheat on their girlfriends, I think not.
All the doom and gloom answerer's here so far would have you cut off your nose to spite your face, just because of suspicion.
Well maybe we should start telling kids to stay off the rides because they are not going to last.
2006-09-22 18:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by rikenelson 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is not a "social experiment". He plans on either cheating on you or dumping you, but is finding your replacement first. I think the fact that he did not seem upset about you finding the site in the history says it all. Dump him!!
2006-09-22 16:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same old story, I'm afraid love.
A lot of us guys are the same - exactly the same as a cat!
Love chasing a bird, love catching it and watch it flutter around but as soon as it lays down still - they get bored and go to find another bird to play with.
2006-09-22 16:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women like you make me laugh. Don't stay with a man who cheats on you. Dump him.
2006-09-22 16:25:55 · answer #8 · answered by stygianmoloch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me honey......DUMP HIM...did you hear
that okay! He is giving you all the sign's you need...he's not just raising a flag...sweetie...he's got his arms full of flags waving at you...DUMP HIM NOW!
He's a loser!
2006-09-22 16:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should have told you. I'd be really ticked. He must be looking for someone else. Man, I'd be ticked. if he had nothing to hide, he would have told you
2006-09-22 16:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋