My boyfriend and i are on this break. were still "together" and we say i love you and everything but he went on a trip without me and went with his friends. he always says to me "why are you so upset? were not broken up i just need time alone because im tired of fighting with you all the time, i still love you."
He called when he arrived at the place for the trip and talked to me for probably 3 seconds. i said cant i talk to you for a minute and he blew up at me and i ended up letting him go. i sent him a text and he got pissed and turned off his phone and eventually called back and said "stop calling my friends, i dont want to talk to you." well i wouldnt let him get off the phone and he said "my friends are F**king waiting for me, you're being a dumb b**ch" and hung up.....
2006-09-22 16:19:59 · 13 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
His sisters bridal shower is sunday and i'm supposed to go.
1.)Should i forget about going and take the gift to his house before he gets home from the trip, and explain to his mother what happened and what he said to me and why i don't feel comfortable going sunday?
2.)Should i go sunday because what he did his sister shouldnt suffer for? His sister and i aren't very close though!?
3.)Should i take the gift over and tell his mother something came up i would prefer not to discuss and i cant be there on sunday?
* i dont want to lose him for good..i think he would get too upset if i mentioned what he said to me, considering the fact his parents dont know were on this break*
please HELP!
2006-09-22 16:23:54 · update #1
i understand that if you love him its hard to let him go but you really dont need to be with someone who treats you like that doll. especially someone who is fine one minute then blowing up at you the next. i really hope the situation works out and im sorry he treats you like this,
good luck
♥
Jordan Alexis
2006-09-22 16:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the gift to his sister and give her apologies that you won't be able to make it.
Stop calling your boyfriend and bugging him all the frigging time!
Better yet, give him some space. You don't have to be around him 24/7. Get your own life and let him have one away from you now and then. Just because he doesn't want to be tied to you all the time doesn't mean he doesn't love you, but if you continue in this vein, he is gonna dump you big time.
Ease up. Exactly what does he have to say for you to get it? It sounds to me like he doesn't want to hurt you, but doesn't want to be in the relationship either. Let it go.
2006-09-22 23:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He told you he needed a little space away from you, was kind enough to call you from his little "away" space and it wasn't good enough for you?
He needs a break for a reason - and you're probably quite thoroughly convincing him that the break needs to be more permanent. You sound clingy. No one likes clingy.
If I tell someone I have to go and the other person won't "let" me get off the phone, they'll get an earful too. He's being honest and up front with you and you're being utterly silly.
2006-09-22 23:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by tagi_65 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lisa, Have you ever heard the saying If you lost something or someone let it go iff you find it or they return it was yours if you did not find it or they never return they were never yours.
he just needs hie space to think I am sure it is nothing you did or he did just stress of the world and daily demands put on him by others and things that he has to get done that day might conflect.
2006-09-22 23:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what the question is. but i see where hes coming from, my bfs the same way, we fight, and he thinks its the end of the world. FIGHTS WILL HAPPEN IN ANY RELATIONSHIP!! it just depends on how u handle it! but from how he talks to you, i would give up, no man needs to talk to you like that.
2006-09-22 23:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by bridgetsmomma621 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him sum space geez and your trying to stalk him by calling his friends? um i think if you act like a chill gf and trust him maybe he wouldnt get so mad at you.
2006-09-22 23:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by Angelwings87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are not giving him his space which he really needs right now. You want him so bad that you are actually pushing him away
2006-09-22 23:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lotta drama going on here. I think you two would be better, alone
2006-09-22 23:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by steak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We can't understand such complicated stuff on this site.
We're all weirdos, you know?
2006-09-22 23:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he was probably pretty stressed and probably tired so u gotta forgive him.
2006-09-22 23:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by spitfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋