I was on the phone with my boyfriend and his cousin was on the phone too. He hept asking me why i was so quiet when i wasnt the 1 quiet it was him, so then he just came out of nowhere with "you got another boyfriend on the side dont you, you just waiting for me to break up with you so you can call him and talk to him dont you". I was saying no and asking why he thinks that. He said that he knows that i have another boyfriend but i really dont. Then his little cousin had got on the phone and started talking to me about movies and what shows i like, then my boyfriend got on the phone and was like " You wanna go with my cousin? You go wit my cousin?" i said naw but he kept sayin yea you do yea you do. I kept sayin naw we dont and he said that i talk to his cousin more than i talk to him....but i dont i even told him my secrets and everything.
2006-09-22 16:19:58 · 8 answers · asked by lovely 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your guy is being immature and childish (and that's at best) and abusive. You need to jerk his chain by saying that what he did was disrespectful, immature, and childish and he'd better not pull that stuff again or you'll tell him to not let the door hit him in the butt on his way out.
2006-09-22 16:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me think he doth protest too much. He might have someone, but instead of telling you he's pushing it off on you, projecting as it were. Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. Might find out that he is, and just doesnt want to tell you.
2006-09-22 23:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jadeba12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that your boyfriend is acting childish if you had a elationship with someone else why would you speak to the person when he is around you?he needs to ask hiself a question.
that was childish he needs to act like a real man and learn to trust you again? have you ever given him reason not to trust you?
2006-09-22 23:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by alanna p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an immature, abusive, controlling jerk. Find yourself someone who can act like a man, not a boy.
2006-09-22 23:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he was just tryin to tease you or was just playin with you. but if not then he may of had some bad relationships in the past.
2006-09-22 23:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by redneckwomen098 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is looking for an easy way out.......Find another guy tht deserves you, dear........
2006-09-22 23:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this supposed to be English?
2006-09-22 23:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a jerk. Dump him.
2006-09-22 23:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋