I'm in high school. Well I got this friend her name is Lataja. We been friends for a while well we always sit by each other in lunch.But the other day some really popular girls asked her to come sit with them. Lataja left me without saying a word. It's not like I've got a problem with her and her new friends but lately she's been evil towards me. She does'nt like being around me anytmore. And everyday she gets faker by the second. What do I do? Should I talk to her?Ask her if she's still my bestfriend?Never talk to her?What? I've got no idea. It makes me mad to see my friend change just like that.God my teachers even asked me what was wrong with her. I would reply.Sorry I don't know I wish I did.
Can someone please help me.
2006-09-22 16:13:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she may of been your best friend but shes moving on to popular friends people can be mean but they want to be popular and will leave thier best friends for populars if she dosent change in a few days let her go and get better friends i learned that the hard way and im only 12
2006-09-22 16:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
for some people popularity is more appealing to them than true friendship. She is wrong for how she is treating you. She is misguided, realize that she has a warped view of what is important and don't stress yourself about "what did I do wrong". She'll eventually realize she was wrong. If you are not there for her when she does, no one could blame you. People feel like they can elevate themselves by pushing others down, it doesn't work, but all you can do is know the problem is with her and her immaturities. Stay strong and don't give up on true friendship it's there somewhere
2006-09-22 16:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by Rusty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo leave that *****. never talk to her and if she comes to talk to ya dont reply if she needs help in homework or somethin, say u not her friend why should u help her. But if the popular girls leave her and she is regretin her behaviours towards u then tell her its too late cause u can never trust her now . u never know when she gonna backstabb ya again. oh ya and dont forget to make new friends!and cheer up.
2006-09-22 16:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not a real friend for u, coz if she is a good friend she will never left u just like that without any words to say, just to get closer with popular girls.I think she just want to be as popular as that girl..just leave her dear..she's not kind of good friend u can have her..u don't have to talk to her, let her do whatever she likes to do. u can try to get another good friend that is more better than her. one day, if she realize on what she did today to u, she will come to u n say really sorry..
2006-09-22 16:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's gone but she'll be back after she gets all used by the popular girls and guys. BUT when she returns, make sure that you don't accept her back. Make her suck ya toes.... with the toe jam in between. Forget about her, if she was your real friend she wouldn't have left you to be with the girls that are obviously prettier than you. But who cares but the outside, its whats in the inside that counts. You'll be more popular one day.
2006-09-22 16:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How fake can a friend get? As fake as you'll let her get. She's obviously not your best friend so I'd not ask her if she was. If anything, ask her what has changed in her life to make her behave so as to disappoint and hurt you. Be prepared for a not very good answer.
2006-09-22 16:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can be really fake and can stab you in the back just like that. let me tell you, my best friend after 3 years of friendship tried to have sex with the boy that she hooked me up with an i had to cut her off right then but girls can be nasty so just be really careful. just find another friend or the best thing to do is not stoop to her level and show her that you don't need her if she doesn't want to be your friend. i know its hard but you have to let go.
2006-09-22 16:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs.Dennis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can just ask her one day tht why is she behaving in this manner. and u r hurt by this kind of behaviour from her.if she replies curtly and u get tht evil kind of feeling, u will know tht she doesnt want to be u. if she understands u , she is still ur best friend.just try to get the matter clear with her.goodluck
2006-09-22 17:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her to the curb. It sounds like she was never your friend. You'll make new friends and when her new friends eventually lose her she'll regret giving up such a good friend.
2006-09-22 16:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by Just♥Brie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must have been dreaming of being a popular girl but stuck with you...don't get me wrong, some people just are. i guess when she finally with them, maybe she feels that she finally belong to the right group. And seeing you are just not up to her level......maybe you are one of her steping stone.....
but to make you feel better.....she must have been under a bad spell...
2006-09-22 16:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by pheobe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋