Lulu , you don't want a man who wants other people and you know that . And don't be there when he comes crawling back . Toughen up and find a man you deserve ; a man who wants the same things you do . That guy is a lost cause .This too shall pass . Five years from now when you are happily married & having your 2nd child , you'll look back on this and thank your lucky stars he is out of your life ; and then you'll laugh . Try it !
2006-09-22 18:07:13
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answered by missmayzie 7
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Girl I remember when I was in your shoes a few months ago. All I can tell you to do is to just let them go. If he comes back then you were meant to be but if it takes too long you will have time to stand back and actually see what kind of person he is and if he is worth the pain. Time also give you time to heal. I always tell everyone I know that if they are in love with someone who isn't returning it that it is going to hurt like hell to leave them alone but at least they get a learning lesson from it. You will grow as a person and you will know what to look for in the next relationship. Cheer up hun! o
2006-09-22 23:48:21
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answered by Patience K 1
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Sounds like he wants to move on. If this is true, nothing you do will stop him. Think about it, do you really want to hold on to someone who does not wish to be with you exclusively? Do as he suggests and start seeing other people. If this doesn't bring him to his senses, nothing will.
2006-09-22 23:17:04
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answered by worldwise1 4
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Nothing! Sucks Doesn't! Join the Club!
If you set it free and it comes back..its love and it was meant to be
He leaves and doesn't come back..Cry your tears and get up and prove to him and the world that you are better than all of them out there
2006-09-22 23:12:52
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answered by Anonymous
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ive been thru this, really nothing. guys hate to be ignored! act like it doesnt bother u. turn the tables! its hard, but u can do it.! guys are all about ego, play on that! even if it kills u , pretend ur not bothered. make sure to look good, and pretend that ur having the time of ur life! dont be nasty to him, just treat him like hes invisible! if he doesnt come back u can do better anyway!
2006-09-22 23:30:48
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answered by pretty_amazing_2006 2
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Why would you want someone back that obviosuly doens't want to be with you anymore ?? Move on and find someone who does. If he does it once, he will do it again. Good luck!
2006-09-22 23:18:03
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answered by misfit 3
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if he felt the same way as you, he would not want to see other people. hopefully he comes to his senses and realizes what a special person he has in you.
2006-09-22 23:34:15
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answered by darren b 3
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have you ever heard the butterfly story,
let it go and if it was meant to be yours
it will come back to you.
2006-09-22 23:12:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Dump him and fast
2006-09-22 23:19:11
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answered by Helper Elf a.k.a. Artistas 2
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Make him jealous, date his best friend.
2006-09-22 23:12:52
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answered by xoxarielle14xox 2
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