LOL HUH!?!
Anyways..
I have never been in a real relationship.
I guess that isn't hard to believe since i'm only 15...but still..
anyways i do sorta wanna have a boyfriend. Well theres this guy who's sorta cute but not really my type 'cuz he acts really like thugish and he has a grill...lol. like he's not really bad becasue he comes to school every day and stuff. he's used to always like mess with me last year becasue he thought i was cute and like comment about my body and stuff...i never thought he would like me like for a girlfriend.
anyways the other day he text messaged me and was like "whats up with me and you"? and i just said, "i dont know..." so we talked about like nothing for a while and bassically every question he asked me i said i dont know...he was like "do you like my looks" and i was like "yeah" anywayy..um he asked me out to be his girlfriend and like i was confused since i liked him i guess but not really for a boyfriend, but i said i would go out with him. so now we are going out and...it just doesnt feel right. i think we moved into things too fast. i dont wanna break up in the first 2 days but i like another guy now...should i just start getting to know the other guy and when i really like him break up with my current "bf"?
2006-09-22 15:57:55 · 17 answers · asked by Megan. 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Erm...dearie, this isn't an MTV Airhead Teen forum....You might want to find that elsewhere.
2006-09-22 15:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Oh wasupie, you got the guys competing for you already at age 15. The compliments are nice but you don't get a boyfriend focussing on your looks and getting guys to compete. That leads to the kind of problems you don't need. A nice guy respects a girl and he doesn't play adolescent games. You told the guy you would be his girlfriend, but you didn't spend time with him to be able to make that committment. Neither did he. Talk with him about it, maybe he wants to get out too. But remember you are in reputation territory and what you do determine what kind of rep you get. Be real and be you. Have respect for yourself and the others. When you are 18 or more (hopefully a lot more) you can take a look at the adult side of things but not at 15. Trust me.
2006-09-22 23:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhhhh, high school love! How cute. Honey, there are too many options out there to be tied down to one. Now, being that you are a smart girl, you know I don't mean to sleep around. But there is nothing wrong with having friends. Keep talking to the other guy. Just because he has a grill does not make him a thug. This is the time in your life (and his) to find out what makes you tick. Never judge a book by its cover.
2006-09-22 23:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix Rising 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be more focused on school than having a boyfriend. Girls your age think they've just GOT to have a boyfriend at all times. It's not true. (Trust me, I know - I've been in HS before) If you don't like someone, don't continue to be in a false relationship with them. It's not fair to him, and definately not fair to you considering that you've already got your eye on another guy. Just keep in mind that guys love a chase, so if you're throwing yourself at a guy or pursuing HIM - it's a major turnoff. At any rate, check out this book.. I really think it'd be a great thing for you to read. I read it, and it was amazing.
He's Just Not That Into You - By Greg Behrendt
2006-09-22 23:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some immature people on this site?
LOL HUH!?!
Anyways...
You appear to be to immature to be dating. Especially some guy you don't even like. Break up with him. He deserves someone who's actually interested in him. And as for this other boy you like, why not just be friends? The best relationships start out as friendships. You are too young to be dating anyway, as evidenced by your immature handling of this situation.
2006-09-22 23:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by legallyblond2day 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't judge someone based on looks. It is a very dangerous practice. You may never get to know someone who is a really cool, fun, interesting person because they don't look a certain way. Our society has place so much emphasis on looks and that is sad. Try to get to know someone before you decide what kind of person they are based soley on looks.
2006-09-22 23:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by Michael D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm. i would say get to know the other guy better.
if you don't like the guy you're with now as a real boyfriend, then i say break up with him and then get to know the other guy. but if you still like the boyfriend, then stay with him, but don't be afraid to talk to the other guy and get to know him. :]
you're only 15. you still got a lot of life left in you. hahaha.
2006-09-22 23:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by sooper mouse! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up first. seriously, always break up first because the new guy always builds momentum faster than you expect it to and then suddenly you feel like a jerk.
2006-09-22 23:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to myspace . Its more your speed .
It`s full of teens with raging hormones.
2006-09-22 23:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, a relationship needs two people, and if you aren't there...
2006-09-22 23:01:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋