First of all I used to work at Sears. Well last year I got a message from an anonymous guy on Myspace (yeah i know its corny lol). Well in the subject line it read "Sears!!!" And I knew it was somebody that knew me. Well he wrote some pretty weird and nasty stuff that really bothered me like saying that he didnt want to mess up his marriage cuz he wanted to fool around with me. And I asked who it was but he never told me. Well I knew he had to have worked at sears cuz he described alot of people to me! It was so creepy! Well right then i thought it was this married guy that I knew and his wife was a cashier there too. Well after a while last year he stopped writing me but just yesterday he wrote me again! He asked if i remembered him and i said yes. Well he told me to name a few people and it all came down to that one married guy that i knew. If it is him, should his wife know about what hes been saying to me or should i just brush it off and avoid the drama?? help!
2006-09-22 15:47:33 · 11 answers · asked by deanda 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The wife should know what kind of creep she is married to. Print out the emails and give them to her. Let her know you have no interest in her husband and you feel she should be aware what he is up to. Chances are you are not the only one he is interested in cheating on her with! This may need the proof she needs to take him to divorce court!
2006-09-22 15:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by CharKaye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm thats kinda creepy ........ well i know that puts you in a rough spot and i no this is a kids point of veiw that ur prob. gonna pass by but if he really keeps on doing it and hiz wife has no clue first i would tell him i realize who you are and then i think if it kept going on and he was dead seroius yea i think his wife has the right to know but be careful i might send it to his wife anonamously so ur not drug into the situation as well , i have a question if you could go answer it that'd be great i need the help well later !
2006-09-22 23:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by Skaterboii's Best Friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one problem with this, and that is the word "if".
If it is him, sure his wife deserves to know how weird he is. But what if it isn't him? What if it is one of your other coworkers thinking they are being funny and playing a trick on you? Unless you know for sure it is him, I would advise you to keep your lip zipped. This kind of thing can cause a lot of heartache if you aren't sure and make false allegations.
Good luck
2006-09-22 23:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all i dont really think that you should tell her right now but i would find out for sure that it is the guy you think it is and have proof and show it to your manager because that is not right its kinda like hes stalking you then if he gets wrote up or fired he might tell his wife you got him fired then thats when you bring out your proof good luck
2006-09-22 23:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by jeannie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save your messages from him and show her what he is doing
2006-09-22 22:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by dfksaturn2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, she deserves to know that he is being unfaithful.
2006-09-22 22:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by §†reet R¥dA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course if it was u u would want to know
2006-09-22 23:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by redneckwomen098 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if it bothers you, since he actually did not do anything.
2006-09-22 22:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeaa.... she deserves to know!! eww!!
2006-09-22 22:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ignore him
2006-09-22 22:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋