he's been my friend for a really long time. he knows i like him; everyone knows that. just a few minutes ago, we went ice skating with my friends, he told me that he doesn't like me back. well, at least i held hands and 'kinda' kissed him before he told me. what should i do now? should i stop liking him or what?
2006-09-22 15:45:39 · 17 answers · asked by .. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he didn't say to me that he didn't like me directly.. i think some people thought he just said that.. my friend dared him to kiss me on the cheek and he was like 'i don't want to because i don't like her'
2006-09-22 15:53:45 · update #1
ugh.. i keep on forgeting stuff. he also said no offence.. lol..
2006-09-22 15:56:45 · update #2
you know he doesnt like you, time to move on
2006-09-22 15:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all your friends a loser!!! He should of came to u and told u in a different way instead of saying it like that! That is if h was really a true friend to u. Well please just move on and dont obsess over this cuz it the end u WILL find a great guy tht will not only like you but LOVE u! Cuz u deserve a lot better! :) hope that helps.
2006-09-22 15:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by deanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. It's juz a matter of acceptance for not liking you and a matter of courage for you to still keep the friendship with him.
It's ok if you still like him, juz put a limitation in yourself.
2006-09-22 15:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by Trixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...you can do 2 things...
Keeping your love for him, which will make you broken hearted, unless a miracle happen and he got so touched seeing your devoted love...
Or number 2, move on! there are a lot of nice guy out there...and you might find one that is better than him!
2006-09-22 15:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by belle_chocolatiere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think since he was sooo honest about it you shoutld move on and find someone else you might like better...yall should still be tight friends though... and still go on mini dates like the ice skating!
2006-09-22 15:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by kelsy!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, back off and retain the friendship. Move on hon. It's not about masochism.
2006-09-22 15:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No find someone else to like and maybe he will come around if you stop paying him so much attention.
2006-09-22 15:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by elaine7crown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont sweat it! Its just one guy...if he doesnt like you move and find someone who does like you for you...liking somone that doesnt like you can just be the toughest thing to deal with and it makes you depressed..just try to find a guy that you can talk to...that likes you for just being you....good luck...
2006-09-22 15:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by aly86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking about him.... when he told u did he mean like not even as a friend or LIKE THAT? cuz if he still likes you as a friend you dont want to ruin that she just deal with it then! if he means in general all around... dont bother with him thats just mean!
2006-09-22 15:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by hunny_boo_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well clearly, all life as you know it is forever changed. Better join a convent.
2006-09-22 15:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by angelofdreams19881 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get over it and maybe when he likes u,u won't like him. Live and grow. Maybe its not ur time to be one.
2006-09-22 15:47:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋