...of waiting for a guy to ask me out!!!! Argh!!! Please help me and dont say "be yourself" because that OBVIOUSLY isnt working.
2006-09-22 15:42:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well ask him out!!!
2006-09-22 15:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by ♥cutemamma♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking this under 'adolescent' then that means you are either in middle school or high school. And I can tell you from personal experience, don't waste your time over a stupid BOY.
But if you really want to, then ask a boy out yourself! Don't dumb yourself down, don't dress like a slut, just straight up ask him. If being yourself doesn't get you a boyfriend, then that means that the boys aren't worth it.
And if you do eventually go out with him, don't let him pressure you into doing anything you don't feel 100% comfortable with. I can guarantee you that you'll regret it later on if you do something stupid.
2006-09-22 18:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by red_rose6886 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Katie, try to take that role in trying to ask the guy out instead because the guy may take for ever until that happens and he may not if you don't do anything about it.
The thing is that when you want something to happen and things aren't taking place then you must do something about it otherwise it won't. Another thing you can do is if this guy isn't interested in you, then find someone who may find interest and then the guy may ask you out. Good luck.
2006-09-22 16:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by cool_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody said being yourself gaurenteed a boyfriend...it only gaurenteed that IF a boy was going aftter you, then you would be liked for who you are.
If you want a boyfriend no matter what, then dont be yourself and do what certain clicks find are acceptable. I wouldnt gaurentee that it would be fun.
However as a better solution, you can go after guys you like...its not always the guys making the first move.
2006-09-22 15:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by leikevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely think that he likes you then play hard to get act like you are a little intrested in someone else and maybe that will throw him for a loop and then he will start to fight for you and then mayeb he will ask you out. Worked for me lol, and that was way back in high school and we are married now.
2006-09-22 15:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by wonderingmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i really like some body i say hey we should go out or talk some day. i don't hold back. it is so old fashion to sit and wait for a guy. it is all about women empowerment so set goals for ur self and make things happen.
2006-09-22 15:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by morena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you ask him out? Be confident and direct, don't cross your arms or look at your shoes, body language says a lot about your confidence in what you are doing.
2006-09-22 15:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by S. O. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing to do is to check out your attitude maybe are behind somewhere and fixed it b'cos guys don't want lady to embrassed them especially among alot of people.Check your behaviour and don't be to hurry for this very they ask you and you will be the one to tell them that am sorry im fixed up today. goodkuck!
2006-09-22 16:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by tomapepe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him out yourself, but remember you don't need to have a bf to be happy!
2006-09-22 18:04:21 · answer #9 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Katie! It's me again! This same thing is happening to me! I am lost! I hope you get some good tips!
2006-09-24 00:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to: show a little skin (dress cute and a little sexy), be flirty, always gaze into a guys eyes when talking to him, lovingly.. also smile when you see a guy you like.. dont be afraid to be bold! why dont you ask a guy out yourself!!!! :)
...ten points?
2006-09-22 15:46:46 · answer #11 · answered by mervelash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋