I got a stepdad a mom and my stepbrother whos 16, im 15. I started wondering about my life when i was on the fone with my girl. And she was listening in the background and she asked me "ash is there a ******* wrestling match going on in your kitchen? am i missing something?" I told her that corey and his dad where just having it out again. So she told me "You know that's not good right?" I didnt get it at first i was so used to watching corey's dad hit him and watching corey swing back that it didnt make sense that this might not be good. The deal is that my stepdad needs beer as much as he needs oxygen and corey's a rebellious troublemaker. I only moved in a month ago and i wanted to know if i might end up like corey with the marks and the cuts and everything. And does this happen in every family?
2006-09-22 15:35:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, no it doesn't. Infact, thats horrible. Report you so-called stepdad and get out NOW!
2006-09-22 15:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by emilyy:) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This definitely doesn't happen in every family. I'm sorry you are having to live in a situation like that. Is there anywhere else you could go live? A relative? A grandparent? A close family friend? Can you talk to your mom and let her know you don't like the situation or you are afraid your step-dad will use you for a punching bag? I have a teenage son and my husband, his step-dad, would never think about hitting him like that. If he did, the real fight would be on and he would be history. Please talk to someone before it is too late. I know how frustrating it can be when a child talks back or acts up but it is no excuse for violence.
2006-09-22 15:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by buckking_99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't happen in every family, and I fear that eventually you may succumb to the same abuse. You should try talking to your mom to see what she thinks of this whole situation. You don't want her to start getting smacked around too, do you? Or, perhaps you should try to convince your step brother to go live with his mother if posssible. No family should physically fight eachother. It's bad enough with words sometimes. Your stepdad needs help. Don't let him take his drunken aggresion out on you or anyone else in your family. Call the cops next time that happens. Becasue the two of you are under 18 it is still considered child abuse and he can be taken to jail for it. maybe that is what he needs to clean his act up.
2006-09-22 15:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by sexy lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to an adult about this maybe a school counselor, because if your mom knows it is happening and not doing anything about it then she is allowing it too. You also need to tell somebody who that is not in the situation because your mom could be scared of him to!!!!!! I have been in an abusive relationship and it is not fun I finally told someone about it and he got mad at me so he broke our daughter's arm when she was 5 months old!!!!!!!!! He is now in prison for this. So yes it does happen to other people, but it is NOT RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Get help for your family because he could get drunk one night and kill some body or put them in the hospital. And you could have stopped it and you will feel bad then or it could be you or your mom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-22 15:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by drpnr22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear this You need to talk to someone about this. You can go to alinon meetings it is like AA but its for people with family members who drink. It will help you understand It's the person with the drinking problem that has the problem. It will also give you advise on what to do if it starts to turn on you. Do it now and don't be afraid they will help. and give you the answers you need
2006-09-22 15:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by naddy4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't happen in every family! You should talk to your mom about your concerns. She should be looking out for your best interest and should know better than to have her son in that kind of environment. Good luck to you, hon.
2006-09-22 15:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋