Ok i just got out of jail and this girl who used to be really really close to me and i liked her alot now she hates my guts she really really hates me. She wont even talk to me if i say something to her she says "leave me alone" or "dont talk to me"I think her mom is brain washing her into not liking me because she doesnt think im a good influence. She wants the girl to have no freinds at all. How do I convince her mom that im a good person and ive changed and wont get into any more trouble.I think she hates me because of the particular charge too.I just dont get it- i never did ANYTHING to the girl and i would have helped her out if she was ever in trouble, we used to be together all the time, now she hates my guts what do I do???
2006-09-22 15:34:48 · 7 answers · asked by rockandroll5556 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My charge was assault with a deadly weapon
2006-09-22 15:48:27 · update #1
what was the charge? u need to gain her trust again-slowly-it will be hard and painful.u have to ask urself if shes worth it or not and if she is dont give up. someone u care about going to jail can be a pretty big bombshell on the relationship so can u really say u blame her? guilty or not. put urself in her shoes. just think about how she feels.
2006-09-22 15:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by rebecca_colee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do something really special for her, something that will make her remember a special day that u 2 had. Make her know how much you care for her. I didnt think she hate you, maybe she is just afraid of loosing you again.
Regarding to her mom, just show her that you have change, study and make and effort to improve your life like get a job or something like that.
Important** stay away from troubles**, you never know what things you are missing while being in trouble, life is too short.
Honestly, if you just got out from jail, take a break and dedicate some time for you and to order your life a little bit. Then worry about other things.
Make sure that you have really changed because nothing is worst that making her believe you have changed when you have not. Please don't make mistakes twice.
I hope everything comes out great!
2006-09-22 22:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The charge must have been pretty bad I guess. The best thing you can do for you is to leave the girl alone for now and focus on becoming a better person. Get a job for starters and become someone that she could be proud of.
2006-09-22 22:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Live and let live I say. Maybe what you were charged with she strongly disagrees with, or it could be that you were in jail period that she is not all that thrilled about. You won't be able to convince her mom, would you want you daughter to hang out with former convicts?
2006-09-22 22:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by po8t1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are rough seasons in each of our live.s....but you have to start a new "history"......for every month you stay out of trouble and stay clean, her parents can predict one more month of sobriety, etc......Just start today like it is the beginning of a new life. Today, you can only work on yourself.......as you continue, her parents will start to believe in you again.....this is called consequences and yes, they can be painful and not solved overnight.....it can happen for you as it did for my son many years ago!!!!!
2006-09-22 22:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by Cassie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mayby something you did i mean im only 12 but got dumped by a girl who i really liked and she liked me but i didnt really do anything just ask whats wrong and try to fix it i did it and went out with the girl again just try to fix any problems
2006-09-22 22:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by wade p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to be a gangsta when all you want is some pus*y. There are only two kinds of men....The gangstas and the regulars and the GANGSTAS are the one's that will never see the outside of prison walls again. Think about it.
2006-09-22 22:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋