im 12 years old and i asked this girl heather out my best friends sister he was cool with it and all but i got rejected i want another go but i want to know how to go about it im thinking should i ask why she rejected me and ask how i can better myself plz help me i really like her
2006-09-22 15:26:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go out in a group or invite over a bunch of friends for pizza and a movie and maybe if she knows its a group thing, she wont reject you.
2006-09-22 15:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say that unless it has been a long time since you last asked, you might not want to ask again for awhile. If you really like her and want to get her attention, try hanging out with her more often.
Compliment her clothes, books, grades, anything. See what kind of stuff that you have in common and mention that to her. Try to become as close a friend as possible.
And whatever you do, don't ask her out a bazillion times in a row. It's annoying. She will not say yes after the second time in less than a month, I can promise you that. Go slow and make her fall madly in love with you!
2006-09-22 15:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by mminuyasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 12, you are way to young to even start thinking about this type of stuff. I think you should wait a little while before you even think about asking her again. Why would you want to ask someone who already said no to you. That really does not make all that much sense to me. I would stop and wait and move on.
2006-09-22 15:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, you need to let go for a while. Girls hate a clingy guy, they want a guy that is sure of himself and if you ask her why then she will think less of you. Jusy chalk it up to experience. It was aesome that you did get the balls to ask her. Let it cool down a while...weeks...then try again...a different way. Don't act all cool just yourself. Maybe ask you firend if she has said anything to him?
2006-09-22 15:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she had feelings for you, she wouldn't have rejected you. You will have to move on. You are so young, and it sounds like you have a lot of confidence, so I'm sure you will have a lot of ladies coming in and out of your life as you get older. Keep smilin'.
2006-09-22 15:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it lil man!!! .u dont ask a girl out. u become really cool friends with them, and then keep them as friends with benefits. that way u arent obligated 2 just that girl. i use 2 b naive 2, till i learned about the magic of "friends with Benefits"
2006-09-22 15:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by mr.ken_kennedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12, 12, 12, your 12 concentrate on school
2006-09-22 15:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by tamara s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask her again, that might be considered stalking in some states. If she doesn't like you find a nice girl who does.
2006-09-22 15:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by po8t1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it almost sounds like you enjoyed being rejected and want it to happen again
2006-09-22 16:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by ƎIΝΟƆ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you just discovered masturbation. Calm down.
2006-09-22 15:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by RyeBerry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋