2006-09-22 15:22:17 · 54 answers · asked by chris l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Possibly the problem is that you are still in love with her and you are feeling hurt that she would do this. Maybe you need to do some soul searching and I think you will come to realize that you are deeply hurt - not angry. They say time heals all wounds but - it is miserable at the time. As hard as this is, think about the future. I'm sure you will find a wonderful gal who will treat you, respect you, and love you the way you deserve. Please -don't do anything that you will regret. Show her respect even if she can't do the same for you. You will be glad down the road that you were the mature person. Good luck!
2006-09-22 16:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by HolidayGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is soon to be ex already, I am assuming that this wasn't the reason she is becoming the ex. I'd say if you have some proof or can get some proof, may be you can claim infidelity and see if you can get a break on the alimony. Just one more way to stick it back to her.
If it's too late, it's too late but if you have a chance, you can make the best of it for future and may be even get some of your anger out.
** Caution: I am not a lawer. This is just an opinion and can not nor should be held liable if your situation worsens due to this advice. I suggest seeking some legal help - which you should already have if you are getting divorced.
2006-09-22 15:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by kettlechipsdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much - you can, however, choose how you will react to this news. You can choose not to care - just keep telling yourself that, really, it works. And whenever your mind wanders back to your ex and the buddy, MAKE yourself think of something else, something else that makes you feel good about yourself. You can do it - you are obvioulsy breaking up for a reason, so remind yourself of what that reason is, and be happy that you will not be stuck in a rotten relationship for the rest of your life. Move on.
Give yourself 48 hours to be mad, sad, cry, scream, whatever, with the promise that when those 48 hours are over, you forget about it and move on. Do this alone or with friends, not with the ex and the buddy. You can do it!
2006-09-22 15:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could sleep with him too, that would probably put a damper on their relationship. If that is simply out of the question, call him up and let him know that you just found out you have herpes, which you must have gotten from her, and since you can't get a hold of her, this was the only way to let her know. That should give them a nice romantic conversation. And you didn't here this from me, but I hear she has to fake it with him. I also heard he has to fake it with her too. Now go find someone who will appreciate you and mend that broken heart. You deserve better.
2006-09-22 15:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by angelofdreams19881 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better get it under control. Anger management is an option, but usually the best way to get over a relationship is to have some good sex yourself. Preferably several, even if you have to pop for money girls. Realize there are others out there.
BUT, do not act on your feelings to EX, she is EX
2006-09-22 15:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was my soon to be ex wife, I would say go enjoy it and I wish you the best. I might even ask, Can I watch?
2006-09-22 15:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what u can do about it i just wanted to say i am sympatic towards ur pain and hope one day you will be completely okay and better....................Okay well first try to get over it with out making urself feel worst she wasnt the one for you and you can find somebody better than her she might regret what she is doing one day lokk there will be a bright side to all of this pain one day Sometimes mistakes and hut lead to into the happiest you have ever been
2006-09-22 15:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by loveliliekisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you do not like it. I really can not see them caring because they are your ex wife but really what do you have to lose by telling them that you not like them sleeping together. I think you may have to get over it and move on with your life.
2006-09-22 15:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being angry.... it won't do any good. Forgive for your own stress level to go down, spend some time finding yourself, doing some things you would like to do. Don't just go out seeking revenge, or looking to move on to another right away. Just find yourself, the right things will come along when you leaste expect it.
2006-09-22 16:01:39 · answer #9 · answered by Country 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Forget about it. It's your EX WIFE after all. Move on and enjoy your new life.
2006-09-22 15:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by Aubrey's mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋