okay tnite I got fingered..and well it was my first time and I went home and I saw I bled..It was a lot and well Im wondering will that happen again or does it only happen once..and does that mean it wont hurt having sex..Please help..I need to know those answers .. Im srry if this is sick to you but I would apreciate your help.
Thanks<3.
2006-09-22 15:18:33 · 17 answers · asked by My-Feelings-Inside 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Don't be embarrassed. Your hymn broke. Its a thin membrane the covers the vagina. Its normal to bleed when it breaks. some people break theirs by gymnastics, horseback riding, pelvic injury's. You can break it once but it might not completely tear so you may bleed the first few times after having sex. Always use condoms and birth control to prevent little ones from happening. Methods like with drawl or having sex standing up are not measures to prevent pregnancy. The only way to be pregnancy and STD free is abstinence.
2006-09-22 15:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are a virgin then your hymen broke, not a big deal, sex will hurt the first time, even if the guy is gentle. It helps to be relaxed. You will bleed for a few days, kinda of like when you spot after your period and you will be sore for a few days. I am not saying this to scare you away from sex it can be quite enjoyable but it always hurts the first time. If you are fingered you will bleed. If you have any problems I would go see your doc.
2006-09-22 15:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by ladyluckinor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cool! :)
Probably broke the hymen. Might have gotten scratched.
Some women report pain when their hymen breaks .. but my buddy Kaye was let down that it did not hurt at all. It was a little "oh" .. and that was all.
Another buddie, but not alas an intimate buddy, was almost crying in her beer that she accidently broke her hyman years ago with a tampon and was worried what people might think.
Very hard to self-look. Even more embarresing to have someone take a look .. doc, sis, friend.
If you really want to know .. when you think you have healed .. you can use a tampon, use a dildo and/or make a dildo and see what happens.
be good, and if you cannot be good, be careful.
2006-09-22 15:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have not participated in sexual intercourse before, it could be that your hymen was punctured.
Yes, the bleeding only happens once.
No, it will still hurt like mad the first few times that you have sex. Those are muscles that you are asking to stretch in ways that they haven't experienced before.
Take your time, don't let anyone pressure you into sex. It's a decision you can never take back.
2006-09-22 15:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by AngG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess he just broke your hymen...but it could also be because he was too rough while doing it...if thats the case it could happen again.....but if your hymen broke then maybe you wont bleed as much the next time.
ps: if you are going to have sex use protection and if you are underage...then dont do it...until you are ready.
2006-09-22 15:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know the answers to those questions then you have no business having sex, or being "fingered". Since you're already online why don't you look up some information on sexual intercourse, since you have no idea what it is.
2006-09-22 15:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by K M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he was a little rough with you but it's normal it be sore and sometimes bleed. It will probably still hurt a little when you have sex too but not as much.
2006-09-22 15:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you either partially tore your hymen, or tore it completely. Since it was only a finger I think it may only be partially torn. you will probably still bleed the first time you have sex, but it probably won't hurt as bad.
2006-09-22 15:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is better than finger stuff. Most women do not like finger stuff, it is uncomfortable.
When u have sex , it will come naturally and not hurt if u go slow and relax.
2006-09-22 15:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't bleed again.
Sex may not hurt the first time. Sometimes it doesn't. But this experience won't change the next experience in that way.
2006-09-22 15:23:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋