why do women do it and its ok but if a man does it he's a dawg?

Question

i met a woman, had great sex fell in love then she decided it was time for the great sex to go away. she has told me that im not as important to her as her daughter and if we share a house that basically her daughter can stay there whether i like it or not. her dau is 29 and a total mental case and makes me feel uncomfortable. she does things like walks around in a towel coming out of the shower, or unzips her pants with her underwear showing. then about 1 week after she started staying with us cornered me in the kitchen and told me that she was off limits to me which is fine, as i have no attraction to her. i told my girlfriend about this and her response was that is just how her dau is and for me to get over it

Answer 1

get out why you can, why should you " get over it " as your g/f says if YOU had done something to the daughter then she would of had something to say, SHE should of told her daughter to pack it in, YES a mum loves her children more than anything, BUT they shouldnt get away with that,

Answer 2

what I find interesting in your question is the order in which you place importance on things, you say we had great sex then fell in love. so many people base their feelings on pure lust and self satisfaction. that is not a criticism just an observation.The relationship between Mum and daughter is a bond that is very strong and to appear to come between that will get you nowhere.her daughter at 29 should be out there on her own looking after herself not still living at home, ghee does she ever need to grow up.to parade around semi naked or in an manner not acceptable then to say to you SHE is off limits, that's a nerve. i would say to her if you are off limits then don't advertise yourself in such a manner. Grow up and tell her you don't play games. as for you partner tell her that if she is not taking this seriously you can see it creating a problem between the two of you. tell her that you feel her daughters behavior inappropriate and makes you uncomfortable.be calm and not accusing and i am sure she will listen. as for your sex life well only the two of you can work on that one my friend.

Answer 3

That sucks for you man.
I guess the best thing you can do is put your foot down and let her know what you want or better yet to avoid the occurences with her daughter get an apartment for yourself and just visit your lady at hers that way at the end of the day you know that there is a place you can go when you need to with out any disturbances.

Answer 4

you told your gf
that her daughter walks around in a towel
and w/her panties showing
and your gf said ignore it

did you tell your gf
that her daughter "cornered" you in the kitchen
and said she wasn't going to f**k you?
no

you only complained to your gf
about her daughter's towel/panty display
after the daughter
told you to settle down

you don't really care if the daughter
is semi-dressed
--hence your question about why
if YOU walked around like that,
you'd be called a dawg

actually, you'd LIKE to walk around like that
and, why shouldn't you?
it's your place
and, maybe it'd get you some action from your gf
and, it'd give the daughter something to think about


your whole set-up is a mess
it's gonna stay that way
until you dare to talk straight with your gf
--of course, you're afraid she'll cut out

but,
think about what you want
think about what you don't want
think about what you're willing to put up with

compromise is ok
a soap opera life
only keeps away
the good
stuff
and women

Answer 5

Just read the material at the site and all your questions will be answered. Trust me on this! And - never waste your time with a woman who has the following qualities:
1: dishonest
2: disloyal
3: untrustwrorthy
4: selfish
5: inflexible
6: has low self esteem
7: nags
8: is not interested in you more than you are in her (the reason she is not interested is irrelevant - if she is not interested, don't waste your time and don't rationalize her behavior)

To keep it simple - a woman worth having makes it easy and pleasurable for you to be her boyfriend.

Answer 6

I think its more of a society issue.. you know how women are potrayed as the weak sex and emotional . and men are always expected to be logical and rational. which is not true we all make mistakes and we all have a litte bit of each... me as a women i think that sometimes we take advantage of the circumstances... we judge men alot and we expect to be treated equal and then when lets say that our man wants to stay home instead and take kare of the kids we get offended because society says "whats up with your man hes a queer because hes staying in the house". and then we feel bad .. we all very vulnerable.. But reality is reality and in my eyes .. I just think shes a hornbeach .. and he wants you ... or maybe its just an agreement between mom and daughter to test you .. Ignore her daughter and keep on going with your life.. now if she tries to offer herself just reject her .. and talk about it to your wife.. keep her updated on her daughter's behaivor.. ;]

Answer 7

Brother it is time for you to get a new address, and move out of looney tune hotel cause both of the women are three cents short of a nickel. Seems to me like you are in a bad episode of three's company. It is time to find a new place to live and a new girlfriend, cause this one definitely has issues.

Answer 8

The daughter probably has had a rough life. She probably has some mental issues that need to be resolved. Of course she won't like you, but simply go your seperate ways and don't bother her, and she will eventually stop this behavior.

Answer 9

Sounds like the daughter is a tease. Stay true to mama, and things should work out.

Answer 10

Plenty of people love their kids more than their friends. Keep in mind that Mom raised this daughter, seems to be ok with her behavior, and is apparently supporting her. That should tell you something about both of them.