ya my best friend pretty much broke me and my bf up cause she hated him. she always said rude comments to him even after she promised me she wouldnt. she even tried to turn the argument around on me saying it was my fault. so what do i do? cause my mom doesnt want me to be friends with her but i sorta do but i mostly dont cause im sick of all her $#!%.
2006-09-22 14:45:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If...they are really your best friend they wont break you guys up...and if they do...you dont need them or the bf or gf...they will always be unfaithful...move on and be glad you didnt get stck..
2006-09-22 14:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 16:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you have answered your own question with the statement that you are sick of her. Is your mum a good judge of character? If so then listen to your mum.. If this has happened once it is quite possible the girl will do the same with the next boyfriend. Unless there was something your friend new about the boyfriend that you didnt so this was the cause of her behaviour. Did your mum know this boy as well? As if she did and thought he was a nice boy then again listen to your mum. Having friends is great, but they must be real friends or you may as well not have them.
2006-09-22 14:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you already knew the answer. Boys shouldnt come between friends but if she couldnt respect your relationship and be supportive of it, then how was she a friend. Follow your heart and if you dont want to be friends with her then dont but if you do then talk to her. All the answers you need lie in your heart just follow it.
2006-09-22 14:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you happy with him?
cause if u were then she should have screwed it up for u cause i real friend just wants u to be happy regaurdless if they like them or not so she told sound like a real friend so she might be oneu can let go.
She also might of fought with him alot cause she was jealous of the time u were spending with him and not her.
Tootles
2006-09-22 14:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by tajbug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey well i dont have that good of an answer im so sorry but ya know k well im only 13 but hey if you really luv him keep going out with him and just get right down to the point with ur friend just go up to her and say ok stop with this sillyness and leave him alone if you have a problem wiht me dating him then dont hang out with me wen im around him. im so sorry i have really crappy advice lol. but ya good luck.
2006-09-22 14:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd drop the friend. It seems like she has issues of sharing you w/ someone else or if she doesn't have a bf she doesn't want anyone to have one. If she did it this time she'll do it again, and this time she might drive away someone you really care about.
2006-09-22 14:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to both of them, and who ever listens than you know they are you friend. Tell you so called best friend if shes considers you as her best friend because if she does she will support you in the decsions you make. And stop arugeing with the guy you wan to be with. And if you cant seem to understand it than I cant put up with this. I care for you and i would do this for you, so please understand and do it for me.
Than go to this guy if you still want to make things work. Ask him if he still has feelings for you. Tell him that this girl wont be bothering you anymore and if she does i am pushing her out of my life so we can make it work if you are willing to give it another shot.
2006-09-22 14:49:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i kinda have a similar situation, just i was the friend. my best bud dated this LOSER, like horrible guy (in my eyes, but eventually hers too. i mean he WAS BAD). just tell ur friend, "hey look I know that you dont really like (blank), but i do. I care about him and he is important to me. and if u r a true friend, u will let me be happy! just be civil around him and also try not to hang out with him." also ask her wut personality traits bugged her and get her side. she may have an insight into a big problem that u were blind to. :)
2006-09-22 14:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is really ur friend, she wouldnt of said all that stuff bout him.Trust me that is happening to me right now.Just forget her.After what she has done she really isnt a "best" friend.
2006-09-22 15:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋