can you help me and tell me what i post to do at this point because i tried so much to conceive a baby but it never happen. there was this one time that my period was late but i at got it two days later. I at took a pregnancy test and it came back negative and i was mad. so please give me some advice. Thank you and may god bless you. have a nice day.
2006-09-22 14:30:37 · 11 answers · asked by liltweet 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Relax. You will conceive when the time is right. A good strategy is to have sex every other day so that a good amount of sperm is released into your body. If you do it everyday, that lowers your chance of conceiving. Also, you know how they say that you should do it while ovulating? Well, if you have sexual intercourse every-other-day, then you're bound to get pregnant during that time! Good luck. Make sure you are sure about this because you did say "boyfriend." A child will connect the both of you for at least 18 years, and if you split, it's the child's life that will be affected the most.
2006-09-22 14:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by LiSa B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your boy friend to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your boy friend to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-09-23 09:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are an adult (you never know) and have secure income and stable relationship, then try and conceive. It's not easy raising children. Get a pet first (I'm not kidding).
2006-09-22 21:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never mind the marriage thing,,,,,,,,what's the difference whether your married or not...... it won't change how you raise your kids.......... and besides marriage isn't sacred like it used to be....... so with that said..... you and your boyfriend should stop trying so hard to have a baby.You want it so bad... it isn't happening.....just relax....... enjoy the sex...... when you least expect it ... it will happen. Good luck !!!
2006-09-22 21:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You probably don't want to hear this but..........Don't have a baby untill you are married. If this relation ship is so serious that you want to have a child with this person, why are you not married? Marriage should definitely be your first step.
2006-09-22 21:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by rustygrapevineyard 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope you're at least 18, get married first, then discuss the baby situation with your spouse.
2006-09-22 21:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by daryavaush 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
start from the beginning and do it in the correct order, get married first, the way God tells you to!
2006-09-22 21:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by nsrush83 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Step one - get married for the sake of the child.
2006-09-22 21:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop trying so hard and just have fun, relax
if it still doesn't happen see a specialist to see what the problem is
2006-09-22 21:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by nodoubtklt27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably not meant for you to have kids with him i would suggest you get married if you really love each other to want to have a baby
2006-09-22 21:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋