would you be jealous if your boyfriend got a musage or a lap dance in a strip club?
2006-09-22 14:21:41 · 21 answers · asked by Melanie P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hmm... do you give him massages or lap dances?
If he's not cheating then is there really a problem?
Personally I wouldn't allow it. However, if my bf had this need I would make sure I was satisfying it.
Ask him why he does this and be willing to really hear the answer. Consider his answer and find suggest a way to fill this need that is agreeable with the both of you.
2006-09-22 14:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would want to know what was he doing in a strip club in the first place. Why do so many women put up with this behavior from men when there are many many more men who do not go to strip clubs, do not cheat, do not lie, do not beat women,but continue to have a hard time finding someone yet this dirtbag has a girlfriend. Most likely several .
2006-09-22 21:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by Carlos D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even be jealous if my husband got a massage or lap dance at a strip club, as long as he only went one one once a year or so and didn't screw around with other women.
PS Finger - you need to learn proper capitalization and punctuation before you start ragging on people about their spelling.
2006-09-22 21:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. Its just the strippers job to do that. Besides, the last time me and my boyfriend went to a strip club, I got the lap dance, not him.
2006-09-22 21:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by Pinky 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The answer it YES...well first of all...when a guy is with me there is no strip clubs, no naked girls nothing! I see that the reason a guy looks at other women is because they are not satisfied with what they got. So do yourself a favour get rid of him.
2006-09-22 21:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think guys that go to strip clubs are not very mature....and not very respectful to their girlfriends either. If you're with someone who feels the need to go there, consider meeting a guy who will treat you better.
2006-09-22 21:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...but the best way to handle it is learn how to do a lap dance and strip tease and surprise him with a private show:)
2006-09-22 21:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if he was weirding out a lot and drinking some beers. If he got a musage, I'd kick him in the jim bag.
2006-09-22 21:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'd furious. Grounds for divorce
2006-09-22 21:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by eeeeeeeeclipse 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends onhow much he spent and if I was at the club with him...he better spend more on me and I want a lap dance too!:)
2006-09-22 21:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by answer_diva 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋