I can't stop crying...?

Question

I started my freshman year with no friends and ended it with no friends. It feels so bad not to have friends nobody to talk to. Almost feel rejected. I remember when I use to come home and cry til I fell asleep because I had no social life at all and all the ones I try to builded felled apart. In real life and on thee computer. Now, it's my sophmore year, and I decided that I wanted friends. I need friends. So I thought I made friends with this two girls. When prep rally camed around they left me all alone on the bench by myself. Like I wasn't there. I cryed my *** off this afternoon, from my walk to school until I feeled asleep. I'm so stupid, uguly and useless. It's all most as if no one wants to be my friend. and I really need a friend. A good friend and I can't get that. I have been rejected since I moved to New Orleans 2 years ago til now here in baton rouge after hurricane katrina. No real friends are anywhere. I don't feel like doing anything anymore. not even eat. help me plz.

Answer 1

Ok first of all, you need to work on how you feel about yourself and your confidence, the more confident and happy you are, the more you'll attract people to you. Nobody likes a constantly negative person or a constant complainer. So just take your time and heal. If you need help ask someone, or go to a counselor(DOES NOT mean you're crazy!). As soon as you get more confident, happy and upbeat as you are now, you will have new friends in short time. It won't happen overnight though. (I wish it did) Take care sweetie.

Answer 2

sweetie first of all u r not worthless. Do not put ur self down like that have u ever considered the fact that u r chosing the wrong group of friends? Also there r alot of mean people in this world. Just keep ur sprit up. And them twogirls from the ralley sound like little brats u should not want to be their friend anyways. Remember never lower ur self for others being stuipid. And i am not near new orleans but if u ever want to talk my email is [e-mail] and my yahoo messanger is piebabiesdanielle good luck sweetie and do not let them girls push u around u r better then that.

Answer 3

you know what u r a wonderful person and people just cant see that see i also had very few friends and as of now i dont really have any now. i choose not to cause they cause to many problems.
Like i just moved to nothern michigan about 6 months ago and i made really good friends with this girl named amanda for about 4 months we were always together everyday parting shopping gossiping everything that girlfriends do together but see the reason i moved up here from were i was is because i was in a domestic relationship and i ran away from
well anyways about after 4 months we got in a fight over a guy and she started caling my ex and telling him where i lived and infor that he didnt need to now putting me in danger
so from personal experience girlfriends always stap u in the back
i have a few friends now but only guys so maybe that would be a good idea for u i am not saying like a boy friend or anything but truely guys r so much more fun to hang out and much more easier to get along with and less likely to stap u in the back

u have any more questions u can email at [e-mail] or even im me there ok hope t o here from u
and remember u r a wonderful person

Answer 4

I really feel for you. I never had the problem with making friends in school but I had a problem with some of my friends treating others terrible. I know it seems tough right now but believe me as time goes by things will get better. I don't know if you got a job but maybe getting a part time job since your still in school might help you to meet new friends there. The majority of my friends are ones i met from jobs. Take care and good luck to you.

Answer 5

then me start by saying I hate to cry I hate it I can't stand it but if some is crying I will not ignore them unless I kno they want want to be ignored sometimes when you cry you don't want some one to come and help you and draw attention to the fact that your new name is brook (babbiling brook) but in the case where someone does need help and I feel my help may be adequate then I step in and deal with the crying. Now what you need to do to get over all this crying and I have no friends thing is whenever you feel tears coming try not to blink for as long as ossible cuz then the water won't be squeezed out of your eyes breath deep and and swallow your sobs that will stop the tears but about the friend thing stop looking for friends hope they come to you if not too bad do school work become a strait a student have every one want to know you cause your so smart and they could use your help. build thick skin become emotionally detached ands then you won't have to care simple.

Answer 6

first let me reply to old man gosser your are so mean and cold hearted she ask for help and you did not even have a kind word shame on you//// now hon i was once like you i went through school and did not have any friends and felt along and rejected even had cousins who went to same school and did not want to hang with me ,and it did hurt very much and like you i cried my self to sleep many night , i all ways thought it was me but i came to realize that it was not it was the other people around me so i did thing that made me fill good about my self got instred it sports and did things that i did not normally do and met different kid of real true friends hey guess what i just made another good friend you so keep your head up and a smile on your face love ya

Answer 7

Hey! Cheer up! Its me your new friend. You are a very strong person. Remember that. No one else could go through what you have gone through and done half as well.
I have a son who is a sophomore in HS. So I can relate to knowing someone who has a hard time fitting in in school.
High School is murder. So many people are just so selfish.
Take care of yourself. Message me and we can communicate if you want. I think you will see that there are alot of good people here in Yahoo Answers. See you around!

Answer 8

Maybe friends is not the answer you need to love yourself first and not feel so dependent on other peoples approval of yourself.

Maybe people are picking up on the anxiety and pressure you feel trying to get friends.

Just think postitive be confident and im sure people will flock to you :)

If someone doesn't want to be friends with you then its their loss not yours.

Don't beat yourself up about it.

Answer 9

sounds like many here r willing 2 talk 2 you start there. Smile more @strangers you'll feel better about yourself. If suicidal tendancys well would suggest counseling. Have a great nite..Be strong

Answer 10

i was the same way in school. i would meet someone and think they were my friend but they weren't. i'm 25 years old and i still don't have a friend. but i bet you aren't ugly or stupid or useless. i used to think the same thing about myself and now i'm married. so i tell you what. email me and i'll be your friend. i know it's not the same as having a friend at school but you can still talk to me. i'm only 25 so we might have more in common than you think. email me at [e-mail]