ladies i have a question to ask that me and my fiance neeed help with. I am 20 years old and my fiance is 18 and were both dead set on having a baby. we try 5-6 times a week and over 2 months no results. i took a test 2 c if my boys r good and they are and shes in great shape 2. at 1st i thought it was cause of my pensis size (3.85 inch) but i doubt that its that. please ladies we really want a kid is their anything we can do to increase the change of conceiveing one. (other than more sex lol)
2006-09-22 14:07:13 · 19 answers · asked by lxahlers 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
we have gone 2 take tests 2 c if we can. we both check out were both able to have kids.
2006-09-22 14:11:36 · update #1
alot of people have been asking this. YES we have our lives in check. we have been with eathother for 8 years and have been planning to get married for 6 years and having a kid for 2. our lives and carrers are perfect to supposrt us and a lil one of our own easly. so their no worries on either side.
2006-09-22 14:31:03 · update #2
A plan that worked for my first husband and me was developed by a pretty smart GYN doctor. Over the years he'd often seen couples who were trying to conceive, and he worked out a pretty simple plan that usually ended up with conception occurring within 2-3 months of implementing it.
You begin to count the woman's cycle on the first day of her period. The first month you have sexual relations on the 10th, 12th,14th, and 16th days of her cycle--not, as almost anyone would think, more often than that, because frequent activity can cause a lowering of the sperm count. The second month, you have relations on the 11th, 13th, 15th and 17th days of her cycle. You continue this schedule of alternating days--if you go into the third month, it's back to 12, 10, etc. but it always worked pretty quickly, assuming no other underlying problems were present.
I tried it and it worked just as the doctor said it would--as it did for a friend of mine as well.
2006-09-22 14:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Chrispy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have sex during ovulation in order to achieve results but I have to say you two sound awfully young. Do you have your careers in check? I know it isn't my business but there are so many wonderful things you haven't experienced. I'm not saying having a child and being married means your life is over, but it does change things dramatically. Perhaps you should take this as a sign that you may want to spend a little more time thinking this through. Remember once the baby is here, you can't put it back.
Best of luck to both you.
2006-09-22 21:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by curious51867 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you dummies. Penis size has evertything to do with it. A long shlong gives the tadpoles are great head start up the Fallopian channels.
With a 3.85" shlong (how did you measure it to 5/100's of an inch anyways?, laser rangefinder?) the tadpoles will tucker out before they can get to their destination.
You get more bang for the buck with a big one. Also, the Misses has to get off for a good egg to get accessed. 3.85" aint gonna cut it.
You may be able to increase your chances by using gravity to your advantage. Get the booty way up high, i.e., doggy style, so that the swimmers can use gravity to help get down into Fellopia, the egg basket.
Dang, I should be charging $ for this advice.
2006-09-22 21:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by x 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why a couple of children want have a baby..??
Anyway is your business.... no your size has nothing to do with it... you can go and see a doctor to see if the sperm counting is the correct one to procreate. And some exams also with your couple.
Have children is a big responsibility, maybe is not the right time .... go to see a gynaecologist if both take the decision.
2006-09-22 21:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sortilegio 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you go see a doctor first to see if you can concieve children.It shouldn't matter what size your penis is it is the way you use it. It does take time for some people sometimes it takes years for couples to concieve. Just have patience and you will hopefully have a good end result when you least expect it.
good luck and happy trying.
2006-09-22 21:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by mum of 3 boys 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok im glad you are getting it that often but you said its been two months! that means shes probably only passed two eggs! dude these thing dont always happen right off the bat. theres only a few days in the month she can get pregnant anyway. if you just quit worrying about it and have fun being with each other, most likely it will happen.
2006-09-22 21:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be trying too hard. If you are making love 5-6 times a week you aren't giving yourself time to build up good sperm. Take your time. Have fun and don't be too serious about it. It will happen when you least expect it.
Good Luck
2006-09-22 21:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break your "girls only" but I have some constructive advice. Don't forget that most couples have to try for 4-6 months before getting pregnant.
Don't blame yourself, her, or any part of either of your bodies. Just give it time.
2006-09-22 21:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by Leif B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
have sex only when she ovulates which is approximately 2 weeks after the first day of her period. have sex that week every other day not everyday which depletes your sperm count. wear boxers not briefs. don't drink. c*m with her in missionary position and have her lay with her legs elevated for 15-20 minutes afterward. best of luck and have fun.
2006-09-22 21:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by rose45 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you both need to make a legal commitment to your relationship and take the real step of marriage. Create a safe and secure relationship to bring your children into.
Then, relax. Stop thinking about it so hard and stop trying so hard. Just have fun with sex and love and the children will come sooner than you know.'
2006-09-22 21:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋