2006-09-22 14:05:46 · 10 answers · asked by starrynight1 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By the way, I'm a lady.
2006-09-22 14:16:20 · update #1
I'd pretty much ignore the trio suggestion.... perfect way to destroy your marriage.
Instead, buy this book: this is THE book used by sex therapists today. Get it cheap on Amazon.com -- yours by Wednesday and cheap in paperback -- worth every dime as are some of her other books. And remember, sex is more than just intercourse. Do the exercises -- lovely stuff. You'll feel like a kid again.
"For You Both" by Lonnie Barbach.
2006-09-22 14:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you remember what made you fall in love in the first place? Romance each other and date each other again. That is how you keep it alive for as long as you live. Do things together. Walks in a park, candle lit dinners, Take 12 dozen roses and take all of the petals off and sprinkle them all over the bed and make love to her in the candle lite. Dance with her in a slow dance and look into her eyes and tell her how much you love her. These may seem corny to some, but it is the way to a woman's heart and the Christian way. Ok, now I see that you are a lady. Well, most of what I said still holds true. Just nix the roses. Get him to allow dating and romance to come beck into the relationship. It brings back the spark.
2006-09-22 21:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by celticwarrior7758 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't tell what gender you are--but IF you're a man-- my answer is : BE NATURAL! My husband can kill the mood for me by placing too much emphasis on trying to try something new that seems contrived or asking me what I want. I mean, I don't know. But, if he would just really need me--Wow! that's a turn on.
2006-09-22 21:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by makingthisup 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take a romantic weekend trip, just the two of you. That will surely spice things up. :)
2006-09-22 21:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the adult store and get toys!!! You will love it... Get all the things you thought you would never do... Remeber , be willing to try anything once....
2006-09-22 21:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by bailey lynn 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'll tell you when I get there.
I'm only married for almost 4 months.
2006-09-22 21:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Try watching some porn together! It doesn't have to be hard core. They have something for everyone.
2006-09-22 21:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do thing befor u got married maybe that will help
2006-09-22 21:10:14 · answer #8 · answered by ♥l.0.v.E♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
bring in another person into the bedroom
Ok, maybe that's not realistic but it is a suggestion. :)
2006-09-22 21:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Viagra and porn--seriously. NO THIRD PARTY!!!
2006-09-22 21:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋