my husband thinks i need to get better at sex and not just do what i can i need to experiance new things
2006-09-22 14:04:01 · 15 answers · asked by tbfox3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Forget the porn -- get a good book written by and for women, like "Initimate Issues". Learn from her suggestions and take your cues from your husband as to what he responds to.
True Story: A nurse friend of mine asked a patient if she was "sexually active." She replied, "No, I just lie there." Don't just lie there.
2006-09-22 14:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by pilgrimchd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I read this correctly, your husband is telling you that to get better at sex, rather than read some of the material that's available or watch a little porn, you need to "experience new things." Kiddo, it may be interesting to see what his next suggestion is.
2006-09-22 14:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how exactly how to answer this, but if you cant satisfy him sexually and he's your husband ,then what kind of future do you have with him? It sounds to me like he's a little bit more expirienced then you and maybe he should teach you what he wants, instead of putting you down and telling you that you need to get better at sex.
2006-09-22 14:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by jess_springfield_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says you need to get better...thats just wrong! Tell him that it him who needs to step it up baby!! You guys can watch porn or get a "poistions" book in almost any libary and try them see what you like and what you dont. Ask him what he likes and dislikes about when you guys have sex. Than try to create your own way. with just using his likes at the same time. Tell him as well what you like and dont. It will make a difference for both of yous!
2006-09-22 14:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh and he is the expert? Does he give you orgasm? Every time? If not maybe he needs help! Experience new things!! whats up with that and why doe she get to decide that? No sweety the problem isn't yours its his!! tell him you will experience e new things with a new man!! See how he likes that idea!
2006-09-22 14:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should have sex with a lot of other men.Practice makes perfect.See how he likes that.
2006-09-22 14:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Watch a porno...either w/ him or alone and remember some of the things the girls do in the movie. Could work. Or, ask him straight out what he wants you to do.
2006-09-22 14:06:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Use toys, it really helps at the moment and allows you to be creative as well as come up with new techniques. Also, perform very slow, guys like it slow because it builds their hormones up.
2006-09-22 14:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Karma Sutra, tantra and Kegal Excersises! He will wonder where have you been all this time! Don't forget sexy lingerie! Good luck!
2006-09-22 14:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by sam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats your problem. Ask him what he does with his girlfriends to make him say this to you. There must be a serious problem
2006-09-22 14:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by ndev 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋