Whenever I'm in school, I walk alone.. I don't think theres anything wrong with me..I'm cute, and I can dress.
I am quiet, tired most of the time, etc...
By the way, even though this is a new school I'm attending this year, this was still a problem in my old school.
2006-09-22 13:56:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I used to have a problem like yours. What I ended up doing is joining something I liked to do and there I found a common interest in something and was able to have a conversation. If you don't know what to join try something you have never done before such as a club at your school. Making friends can be really hard. I understand that, but do realize that friendships don't just form it takes years before you have a really solid relationship. I didn't have any friends until last year. Needless to say I don't talk to them anymore so be prepared to have friends for only a short while since not all friendships last forever. Actually only a very few friends will stick with you for life. Don't be something your not and open up and talk to people. Just striking up a random conversation works. If nothing else appeals to you mention something about an assignment, a person's clothes, or even ask what they are interested in. When you have been in the school awhile you will notice which groups are popular, cool, junkies etc... Keep your eyes peeled and your ears open and maybe you will find someone in one of your classes to get along with. Make sure you aren't putting people off by acting like you are all that. This type of attitude actually tells people to leave you alone since you are so full of yourself. Enjoy the friends you make for as long as you have them.
2006-09-22 14:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by JEB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ITS JUST THE BEGINNING OF THE YEAR SO CHILL A LITTLE
Start talking to someone you have something in common with in class. Break the ice. Make a move. Ask someone if they want to stop at the local store to get a soda or something. Try getting
a study group together. Go to the games and just be friendly
with people.
Sometimes when your good looking and shy , people think your
stuck up. So . . . .
If this persists and bothers you, ask you parents to let you get a counselor. An unbiased third party is a great confidente and can help you along the bumpy road of life. . . .
Get a physical check up for being tired.
Make sure you labs are okay.
I walked alone, i was different; It was hard to find my niche,
but guess what, you are young and it gets easier when you get older. Believe me. Party on!
2006-09-22 21:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, start looking more alive. No one wants to approach someone who looks like their tired and quiet at that. People probably think you don't want to be bothered.
I know what your saying though because I used to be quiet and kept to myself all the time when I was in school. I found out from one of my classmates the reason why she was hesitant to talk to me was because I looked like I was always mad and didin't want to be bothered. I was surprised because I'm not a mean person, I just don't like to talk alot while in class. Another way to get someone to approach you is start asking some of your classmates about assignments and things like that, or join school clubs.
2006-09-22 21:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by Dasja L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on your game G.
You have to talk.Be socialable and genuine about it.
A lot of the time for me it was just getting the nerve to
speak up when I had something to say.
Keep it simple.Work on your art of conversing with others.
No woman will ever turn away from a guy with
his own sense of wit and humor.
Good luck
2006-09-22 21:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by moebiusfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont be quiet if u can pray to god the night before and the next morning go up and talk to the people u want to hang out with. be a nice guy, tell some jokes, do what the like, and eventually u will earn their respect
2006-09-22 21:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by chainz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that one day you should just sit next to someone you dont usually sit by at lunch or maybe during class and just strike up a conversation with them. just make sure you keep in touch though so that they can become youre friend
2006-09-22 20:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by Shawn T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to look tired- most of the kids that r look tired r hung over and not fun to b around. try to be outgoing and smile. don't b too crazy though. try to find people that r in a few of ur classes and hang w/ them between classes
2006-09-22 21:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well y don't you try to be a little less quiet, belive me i used to be the quietest person in my class because i was afraid that if i spoke and was myself nobody would like me but i could'nt stand the lonliness, and that i broke out of my shell now i have tons o friends! y do you tink my email is ME A TOTAL DORK!!!! try it i promise it'll work!!!! :p well GUD LUK
2006-09-22 21:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make friends with someone in your class that walks the same way as you after that class.
2006-09-22 20:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get a girlfriend ask someone out if u want more advice IM my @ punkasian52293
2006-09-22 20:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋