2006-09-22 13:55:02 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One of the reason's I don't love my husband anymore is I can't take his constant gloomy outlook on life. I work two jobs to support us and he complains about how bad his life sucks when he does nothing.
2006-09-22 14:06:44 · update #1
Leave your husband, feed your lust with the other guy and start working on yourself. Explore things that interest with you, enjoy your friends and family, get laid....start a new life. It's time to live a happy life. Put you first then add someone else to it.
2006-09-22 14:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by L.lion 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
What has your husband done to cause you not to love him anymore? Has he cheated on you? Beats you up? Molests the kids? Then leave him.
If he's boring and predictable, here's a newsflash, we all become boring and predictable over time!! It's part of getting to know each other so well that you don't have any more surprises.
But if he's good to you and the kids, keep your husband and quit thinking "the grass is always greener on the other side." I've seen guys that like to go around breaking up marriage, the woman stupidly thinks "Mr.Horny" is perfect but, as soon as she leaves her husband and starts pressing "Mr. Horny" for commitment, he's out of there!
Are you attention deficit disordered? Maybe the problem is that you lack the maturity to make a lifelong commitment and shouldn't have married until you got through "sowing your wild oats." If you want to whore around, get a divorce first. You shouldn't have married if you weren't planning to live up to your end of the bargain and forsake all other men.
2006-09-22 14:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man you lust is obviously toying with you. You need to ask yourself what descent man would flirt and try to turn on a married woman. Chances are this man would never stay faithful to you. Get over the lust---he's a pig that has no respect for another mans woman or you for that matter. He thinks you're cheap and easy enough to cheat on your husband. What a slap in your face and you don't even know it. Stick it out with your husband so you can both grow old together and reminisce about your youthful years together. That is the whole beauty of a long term commitment called marriage.
2006-09-22 15:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does the other guy feel about you?
I was in a marraige to a really good guy but I just didn't love him anymore. I met someone else and fell in love, and he felt the same way. I divorced my husband and ended up marrying the other guy. We've been together ten years! Best choice I ever made.
I'm not saying this would be the best choice for you. Are there kids involved? Does the other guy feel the same way? Chances are you aren't going to fall back in love with your husband. You need to decide if it's worth taking the chance with this new person. Good luck to you!
2006-09-22 14:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by lillith6662000 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Think things through first and if you really and truly don't love your spouse and you are not happy, get out! Are kids involved? If not go be happy. Life is to short to just settle for what you have when your not happy. I have been there and done that, not in love with my spouse one day and in lust with the other, but deep down in my heart I know who the love of my life is my spouse. Just make sure you think things through and make sure you make the right decision. Good luck..
2006-09-22 14:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by aloneathome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do it! I promise you it will be nothing but sadness in your life if you do it. I am hoping you are spiritual and that you know deep down in your heart that this is wrong. I will guarantee you that it will be a disaster if you choose to have an affair with this person. Trust me on this. I know of no one who has ever done this where it turned out good. How can it? This is wrong. Do you really believe in your heart that anything could become good from this? Really,,you must know this in your heart. Please don't!
2006-09-22 14:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what happens w/ your husband. Don't bring another man into the picture until you know your marriage is over for good. Maybe you're questioning the feelings for your husband because you've let yourself get attached to another man. That's not your husbands fault. You need to be real w/ your husband. I wouldn't tell him about another man but I'd let him know you don't feel as close to him as you used to. You never know, he might feel the same.
2006-09-22 13:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce before bringing anyone into the situation. I went thru something like this,and trust me...wait until you are completely over your husband before even thinking about anything else. It plays games with your mind....
2006-09-22 15:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have three options:
1) Try to work it out with your hubby
2) Cheat on him
3) Get a divorce first then F the guy you are lusting.
I would try 1 first then 3 and 2 last. Have fun..
2006-09-22 13:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by Rolly 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1. Get over the guy you are in 'heat' over.
2. Help your spouse find a job.
3. Re-spark your marriage. The same thing it took to get hooked is the same thing it takes to make it work.
2006-09-22 14:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by NC_Pianist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋