We're married for more than 6 yrs and I'm in my early thirties. I want to have a family of myself and he agrees with me. The thing is I've been for medical check-up and nothing is wrong with me but when I ask him to go, he'll give me excuses. When I ask whether he wants baby, he say yes. How can I persuade him to go for medical check-up?
2006-09-22 13:54:51 · 5 answers · asked by confuse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why does he need a check up? You afraid you are related to him? Is he terminally ill? If he has a bunch of screaming crying kids will he kick the bucket? Just get preggo and dont worry about it.
2006-09-22 13:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not being able to sire kids is a bad thing for guys so we tend to 'no news is good news' . beside the check sperm thing is embarrassing to say the least. best you can do is a trade off. {you can have that new truck if you get your sperm checked}. if you want to be sneaky just use a condom, keep it warm and take it in yourself. a family counselor would help.
2006-09-22 14:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by La-z Ike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Persuade..actions speak louder than words...he doesn't want a child right now. It may be that he knows the problem is his and it would be a blow to his ego to actually find that out...probably poor sperm motility. So he says one thing and does another...do not force him....he'll resent you and the child.
2006-09-22 14:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't need a medical checkup unless you're having sex and you can't get pregnant. Start making love and go from there! Let it happen naturally.
2006-09-22 14:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he only says he wants kids but really doesnt or isnt in a hurry. just keep trying....no harm in that
2006-09-22 14:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by Dead Birds Don't Poop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋