ok... my best friend i go to school with is a guy. ive known him for like 4-5 years, but i really am starting to have feelings for him. it didnt start bothering me till about a week ago. everytime he hugz me or sumthing i get chills(good ones) and i feel so small and cute and protected. he sticks up for me with everything. he treats me so well. everytime i hear his name or see him coming i get all excited and my stomach drops! but like i said, he's my best friend and im afraid if i try and get this to go further i'll lose the relationship i have with him now. and i really dont want that to happen. pleaz give me some advice. i could use it! thnx!
2006-09-22 13:36:03 · 10 answers · asked by noelle b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hmmm...
I Think that maybe you should find the right time and place to tell him how you feel, but do not be too forceful - ask him what he thinks about it, how he feels about you. If he's not interested at least you know how each other feel about one another, and you can still be Friends. it is better to have him as a Friend than not in you're life at all.
hope this helps
NutCase9
*good luck hugs*
2006-09-22 13:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by NutCase9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, I am wondering how old you are. Ask him, tell him you feel the attraction. If he really wants you, he would ask you out.
Take a shot, you will never find out unless you take a risk and
are willing to deal with reality for better or worse.
2006-09-22 13:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm.. Thats the same prob my friend has. Except she has only known him for 1 year atleats.. But she is afraid if she tells him he will ignore him. But what i think is maybe you should tell him..
Be honest. & If he is a real friend he wont be mad at you :) Hope this helps
2006-09-22 13:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes ur best friend, talk to him about how u feel! he might feel the same way u never know. just go for it.or you're going to want to be like that all the time?
2006-09-22 13:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by dc4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should go 4 it...you'll never kno until u try! :) And _IF__ You do break ^ wit him you can ask if you can still be friends!!! ( If he is a REAL friend he will probobly say yeah) Go 4 it! GOODLUCK!
2006-09-22 13:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by regina03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels the same way and you're picking up the vibes and that's what is causing you to have these feelings? Talk to him!
2006-09-22 13:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let one of ur other friend's tell him but they have to pretend like u don't know that there telling, make sure it's some one u can trust ok. good luck
2006-09-22 13:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it if he doesnt like you that way then so what if he is a true friend then he will let it blow over so do it tell him you like him
2006-09-22 13:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Just another pretty face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does he feel? maybe the feeling is mutual- ask
2006-09-22 13:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it and hook ^ wit him
2006-09-22 13:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋