Please understand this question may be alittle graphic for some.
When my boyfriend and I have sex it sometimes hurts when we are in certain positions. Like earlier we were doing it doggystyle and it seemed like he was soooo deep that he was hurting me so we switched positions. When it hurts like that does it mean he is hitting something he should (like the baby) someone please help me. I know this is an odd question but I am 8.4 days pregnant and I am just worried that I may be hurting something.
2006-09-22 13:32:11 · 13 answers · asked by plaster_employment 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
for some woman some position is really incomfortable
but we are always to toughfull and want to please them
so we take it..my advice to you is take you're time and go slow
at first in different position untill you find the one that does'nt
hurt so much.and don't worrie about you're husban
hitting the baby tha could never happen no matter how long it is
it's tecnicly impossible you see ......god think of everything
the rest is up to us
good luck isabelle
2006-09-22 13:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The exact same thing happened to me during doggie-style. Turned out he was hitting my cervix. You may just want to move your butt a little lower. That helped me. Also, the longer the foreplay, the more your cervix will move more up and be much less likely to be hit. Oh yes - and don't worry. Your baby is VERY well protected by your uterus. Sex doesn't bother fetuses. In fact, when you get an orgasm they actually feel some of the euphoria and hormones that you do. Threesome lol just j/k! And congratulations on your pregnancy! I'm pregnant too!!!!
2006-09-22 19:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by green march 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not hurting the baby,{unless he is being very ruff and i mean very ruff,this kind of sex is not recommended while pregnant} some positions hurt while pregnant as your body is changing.I found different ones hurt more or less at different times of my pregnancy's.You might want to try going on line with you honey and look up sex while pregnant{beware those naughty cites} my husband and I did, not only did we find some good to know info we found some really great ideas!
2006-09-22 13:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by blue_eyed_brat78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're only 9 days pregnant so you're not hitting the baby... he/she is still microscopic at this point. if your bf is big, he may be hitting your cervix which you need to be careful of. also, make sure that you both wash carefully before and after sex to prevent any bacterial infection.
just try different positions and avoid ones that are painful. use lubricants if needed.
2006-09-22 13:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by rosesky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not hurting the baby, but you could cause cervical trauma, or abrasion to the vaginal canal with not enough lubrication, or too much friction. This can cause infection, which could hurt the baby if not treated. Take it easy. Tell him not to go so deep and don't do those positions if they are uncomfortable. Listen to your body.
2006-09-22 13:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by gspmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with an earlier answerer. Don't do certain positions if they hurt you. Your body is undergoing some big changes right now!
If you have pain other times as well, or this type of pain does not improve, ask your ob/gyn about it.
2006-09-22 13:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by mtnlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sometimes had the same problem...and it turns out that I have a fibroid..so there is always a lot of pressure up there...and now I'm pregnant so it can be even worse...good luck with your pregnancy..peace~
2006-09-22 16:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by Tamara J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certain positions cause the penis to hit your cervix. Also lack of lubrication can cause discomfort.
2006-09-22 13:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't hurting baby, but everything gets ultrasensitive during pregnancy.
You could speak to your doctor if you are concerned about it.
2006-09-22 14:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it hurts so bad, why does it feel so good?
There is a fine line between pain and ecstacy when it comes to sex.
2006-09-22 13:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by 6th Finger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋