is there a formula to make people not look at you?
I don't mind when they look at you and smile or say hi,
I'd like to know what you do
This happens more often at college, I get the feeling that they don't like me.
I don't mind not having friends, cause who needs them!
However, I think that people should show their manners specially at school and at work. Is in these places that we spend the most time.
2006-09-22 13:05:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
They're immature. Hopefully won't be like that in the real world.
2006-09-22 13:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by jeffo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your right. I mean I get that too sometimes and it makes me feel like I'm weird but all we can do is forget about how they are looking at us saying nothing but turn around and surprise them with a hello or a how are you? It'll probably shock them.
But don't be rude back because two wrongs will never make it right. Be different and not like them even though it's hard you'll reap rewards.
2006-09-22 20:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by cookielover3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys? Maybe you are attractive and they don't know what to say? Sometimes it's difficult to say hi to someone you are attracted to. Gals? Maybe they are jealous of you for some reason.
This is going to sound really lame, but when I was in college there was a woman who if she was in the same room as me, I couldn't talk at all (of course her girlfriends who were friends of mine would always made sure I sat next to her if we went to dinner or did something as a group, they enjoyed seeing me squirm). One day I went to the bar that she worked at (bartender) to ask her out. I couldn't. I wrote a note on a napkin, she said of course (enthusuastically, but she did laugh a lot, but we became good friends, no romance). The funny thing was she had the problem you describe (she use to always ask the girls she hung out with if something was wrong with what she was wearing because people were looking at her and she told me that guys hardly ever asked her on dates, but every guy in my dorm knew who she was and was envious when I started hanging out with her). She had a few great friends and that's what mattered.
The point is, it was lame, but people are funny. Nothing to do with you, it's them. Have fun in college! Don't worry about them.
2006-09-22 20:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Yo it's Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is something that is uncontrolable, If you do not want people to look at you, my only suggestion would be too stay home. If you do not go out no one will see you.
People are entitled to look around they surroudings and you can't stop them.
People stare at me all the time and I do not care because it does not bother me even if they look at me mean, who cares. Screw them, I just go about my business and forget they even exists.
2006-09-22 20:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe people stare at you because your pretty. I say kill them with kindness if they look at you all dumb just smile back :)
2006-09-22 20:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by Daisy M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me just stick to your family
2006-09-22 20:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you rather they walked around with their eyes closed?
2006-09-22 20:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by jackie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, have you tried searching the world wide ******* web????
2006-09-22 20:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they don't have anything to say to you.
2006-09-22 20:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by Memigen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋