2006-09-22 13:01:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
If you had an abortion it does not mean that you are incapable of loving a child. There is tons of reasons to decide to not have the child. You could have got raped, you are too young, do not have the finance etc...
I had 1 abortion and I now have 3 children and a 4th on the way. I am a great mother...
2006-09-22 13:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by Vicky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think you are incapable of loving a child regardless of why you had an abortion, now you've come to a point in your life where you are ready and willing to give the love a child needs. You also have to understand that your body goes through a hormonal change which affects your emotional and mental state. After an abortion it is easily understandable how you could think that you are incapable, but it is just a side effect if you will of the procedure. Now if you are constantly having abortions then you at that particular time in your life lack the responsibility to raise a child and therefore may not be able to love a child selflessness. No matter what, wait till you're ready.
2006-09-22 23:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by mslilbit24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you will love your next child just as you would have loved the aborted child the only problem I for see is regret. But I don't know your situation.
2006-09-22 20:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. My mom had an abortion before I was born, and she was a great mom.
2006-09-22 20:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by Girl Wonder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not!
2006-09-22 20:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not.
2006-09-22 20:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by pompeii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. You're the same person.
2006-09-22 20:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not
2006-09-22 20:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋