Its usually around girls. and sometimes guys. i just stay quiet around everyone and dont speak. when im around girls i can think of anything to say to them.
2006-09-22 12:36:49 · 11 answers · asked by sKuLL819 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
part of wut women like most are confident men. try to act naturally like how u talk to ur friends. if u want a gf, talk to her with confidence and dun't try to give her the impression that ur needy for her. try to give her the impression that she needs u and try to make her come for u and not the other way around. here's some ways u can learn how to approach women better: http://www.thehowtomadeeasydating.com/dating-gurus/david-deangelo.htm
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also, if u have any friends, try to talk to people like ur talking to ur friends and try to greet them like u knew them b4 and it's good to make a good conversation. a good way is to talk about each other's moments in life and interesting moments and sometimes humor is a good way to spur the conversation and try to find and talk about the same interests as the person u r trying to talk to.
2006-09-22 16:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by blablasometin6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it. It's natural. Trying TOO HARD will be worse than being shy, and you'll end up really alienated. Just be yourself.
Then, one day, you'll say something witty when you dont even expect it, and a girl standing nearby will think...."I like that guy."
Too many young people (and even older people) think they always have to be "ON" full blast. Nothing wrong with being quiet. But dont feel bad about it.
2006-09-22 12:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by lucyanddesi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have to go step by step from saying just Hi to then saying a few words and so on. Like they say, walk before you run.
2006-09-22 12:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by zap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its tough but u have to jump in there, heres a hint anything cut urself some slack and just be confident in ur self. it will be hard at first but then it will become natural
2006-09-22 15:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by Rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a Dale Carnegie course. They have local courses.
They help you to get out of your "shell" little at a time.
2006-09-22 12:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by Denis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
must be confidence =)
to gain more confidence..first know what your weakness
so. you are shy when speak to girls..
you can practise more to speak to one girl first
and then when you feel more comfortable.. you can try to speak to a group of girl.
i believe .. very soon you will not be shy.
2006-09-22 12:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by Joseph T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to strip club and start talking to the strippers... it'll help
2006-09-22 14:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by Tom Parker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just be urself talk wit ur female frnds or mates can gain ur confidence high
2006-09-22 12:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by LOST 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, don't worry to much about what other people think.
2006-09-22 12:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by asueb77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
watching sex movies as much as you can. It will help you to become more confident
2006-09-22 13:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by tellmetruth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋