why do wome use sex to hook a guy and then pull it away after he says i love u?

Question

im 46, i drive a truck for a living and in jan06 i met a woman who is 52. for about 6 weeks we had fantastic, undescribable sex. then i told her i loved her and it all changed. she said that if we are in love sex should not matter and should not be important.sex went from the greatest i had ever had to any time i want sex becoming a fight. i love to be touched, kissed and lots of foreplay and i give as good as i get. but all it seems she wants to do is for me to screw her and no slow kisses, gentle touching and from her to me no oral(she now says my semen scent makes her sick, but it did not in the beginning). i love to give her oral.i think she is very sexy and when i get home from a 3 wk trip im horney. but she told me recently that why do we have to have sex the first night why not wait till the next night. my last time home we had sex the first night cuddled the next 2 and had sex the night b4 i left and this still was not good enough. what do i do

Answer 1

Get one that satisfies and let that one cry.

Answer 2

you need to clean up your act

sex was frequent in the beginning
because
she
1) wanted to get laid
2) wanted to land you
--that could have been just a challenge thing on her part, though

now that you want more
from the relationship
she's reasserting her personal standards

if your semen isn't to her taste, so what?
that's a frequent complaint
by women (and men)
if you want her to be enthusiastic
in her dining habits in the sack
you're gonna have to change your diet

drink more water
to flush your system/skin
make wiser food choices
--everyone is unique. for example, when some people, eat onions, garlic, or fish their sweat, saliva, semen, becomes so pungent that it turns their partners off
yet, for other people, the foods that adversely affect them--in the scent department--are different. sometimes cheese, broccoli, cabbage make them smell too "strong".
you've got to find out what foods
aren't doing you any favors
--if you want her to do you some

i gotta tell you
when a woman says right out
that she's doesn't wanna f**k
as soon as you get back
she's saying 1 of 2 things (maybe both)
1) you need to wash
2) i need time to get my mind off the guy i've been banging while you've been gone

g'luck, man

Answer 3

Shes trying to control you and your emotions, and doing a good job of it. Back off her and dont speak, dont have any contact, stay away from her, she will realize then whats happening and if she never contacts you again, then you know thats the story, total control. Believe me pal, im 46 myself and been there, ive given up on this love and women crap, I just take care of me and if it comes along then fine if not, then thats ok too. These women today want no commitment, no relationship, no nothing, its all a mind game with them and mainly, CONTROL over you! Dont fall into that trap, you take control of the situation and make her come to you. Like I said, if she doesnt, then forget her and move on. Good luck pal, from another man same age and has been there.

Answer 4

OK this might not be what you want to hear but oh well. You told this woman that you "LOVED" her!! After a really short dating period. I know you said your 46 and she is 52 but think about this maybe that kind of emotional bond has scared her maybe there more behind what she is really telling you. Next time your home sit down with her and talk exclude all sex talk let her bring it up. Hopefully she'll tell you what's really going on with her.

Answer 5

some women are more honest than others. some women play sex games and some do not.
just remember that many men just say i love you to get a woman's legs open. if the two of you cannot communicate about something as important as sex then i suggest then you may have said i love you too soon.
if all of this just leads to fighting then is this the relationship you want? or is this just a convenient physical release for one or both of you? do you still believe that you love her? do you think that she loves you? without love sex is just adult exercise.

Answer 6

please dont pay attention on your pal. pulling faraway from him doesnt make him such as you greater. if something he could began to think of which you dont want him,and in case you shrink back somebody else may well be getting closer to him and he could in simple terms go away for stable and be with somebody who doesnt pull faraway from him.

Answer 7

Seems to me its the type of women you associate with.

Answer 8

sounds like an issue for dr phil

Answer 9

Why do men still fall for it? If you guys are that stupid, I don't think we should have a male president.

Answer 10

Ha, if you marry her, sex will totally end.