it was a guy and we were friends when we were little and we liked eachother we were best friends to young for anything else now he hangs out with the ppl that do drugs and have fights and goes to partys but i don think hes like that but i keep seeing him and it makes me want him again i really miss him and havent talkin to him in years he asked me to copy my hw in summer school but in gym last yr he used to look at me but then i turned and he would always turn around after looking at me for a lil while it was like we were the only 2 ppl in the world. w3hen i see him everything goes slow around me and it feals like its me and him like it used to be and i dont want to come on to strong cause i wrote him a thing on myspace that says i still like u and he never responded but i think he still misses me to i can see it in his eyes but i dont knw if thats what i feal or him i thought i got over him over the summer but i saw him again and i feal so sad cause i want him back help please!
2006-09-22 12:11:05 · 4 answers · asked by nodaybuttoday 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you mentioned the story well, it was a bad tragedy for you..... one thing i noticed is, both of them are very shy in expressing ur feelings, most of the best friends are honest to each other and in ur situation i think you have to speak to that guy about the issue, show him the love you have for him, dont be backfooted, try to take a initiative and tell him all the feelings u have for him......
BOTTON LINE IS: Speak honestly to him and ask him y he is behaving like this........
BEST OF LUCK BYE BYE.
2006-09-23 04:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by pavan k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u are a true friend and feel tht u are close ....so make a move and talk to him ,,,,,,dont force him to leave things wht he is doing ,,bt make him get involved in u and ur friendshipp tht he requires u more than anything in this world ..if he take drugs meet the dr or councellors who help people to quit durgs ...dont tell him first go and meet them and try to find out solutionss...just by thinking it will nt work ,,,u have to do something if u want ur friend should have a good life and u both be friends for ever again ......try and i hope it should work .....
2006-09-22 22:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by koni1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start slow. Just strike up a conversation and go from there. You should get to know him again before anything happens and it will also make things less awkward. I'm sure that he is a nice guy who just got mixed up with the wrong people. Once you are beginning to be his friend again talk to him in private about your concerns for him. If he doesn't want to talk about it then don't make him just tell him your there if he needs to. Once yall start to talk again you should be able to judge how he feels for you and go again. Good luck
2006-09-22 19:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
TRY TO FORGET HIM YOU WILL NOT BE HAPPY WITH HIM.
2006-09-23 23:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋