2006-09-22 12:03:14 · 19 answers · asked by BRUCE C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do what works for you!!..if this is what the both of you want then goodluck!!
2006-09-22 12:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by malanina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you have crossed boundaries of marriage, you cannot go back to being "just a couple". There are things that will prevent this such as wondering why you are a couple when you can't get along or can't live together. The only thing that the divorce will accomplish is getting rid of committment. If you have a disagreement, it's so much easier to walk away than it is to commit to resolving the problem. Therefore, what will eventually happen is that one of you will get tired of the non-commital attitude, and will end the friendship as well as the marriage, and you will be emotionally stranded again. Why put yourself through it? It's really not worth the hassle!
2006-09-22 19:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by Angela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive heard stranger but this is a first. Most married couples start out as live-in lovers then marry but to do a turn about is kinda interesting if it works especially with a divorce decree binding you two legally from a marriage. But then many divorced couples start redating and end up back together later on. I wish the best of everything for you two.
2006-09-22 19:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it is weird. Where does it say in the rule book that you have to be married to be a couple, or, you can't go back to being just a couple once you are married? You do what you think is right, after this is YOUR life you are living, not someone elses. Good luck in your decision and be happy.
2006-09-22 20:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by nzjaded 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole point of getting married was to be together. Divorce is when you want to be apart from each other. I guess you and your wife have money to throw away. Weddings cost a lot of money and divorce cost money as well. Since both of you have all of this money why don't you both use it wisely and seek therapy.
2006-09-22 20:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by asia s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was doing the same thing with my wife, we went on dates, but mostly just had sex. Every time we got together, i would catch her in a lie, so i got fed up with it, and haven't talked to her in a couple of weeks she calls but i don't answer. Although i miss her sometimes , i' am a lot happier with out her
2006-09-22 19:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by James S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds unusual and I doubt if it would work in practice but I know I would feel less pressure with an ex partner if all the legalities were out of the way.
2006-09-22 19:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by livitet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I have been divorce for 9 months and no way would I want to be a couple with my ex UGH and since you feel its strange maybe you need to talk to her and ask her why be a couple if you cant be married that makes no sense at all
2006-09-22 19:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Yes, Yes. When it is over, it is over. What kind of games are you two playing, if you two are going to continue to be a couple why are you all getting a divorce.
2006-09-22 19:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by LuvAll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If marrage is too much pressure and you would feel more free and less tied down then it is fine. What about not getting divorced and going to counseling first. Try to change things maybe.
2006-09-22 19:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by Holly G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on why u are doing it, my in laws did that so that the money problems he had would not effect the property of there daughters that the parents still owned.
2006-09-22 19:14:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋