2006-09-22 12:02:09 · 18 answers · asked by What'd You Say? 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Its easy to be self-destructive when you want to be free to express yourself and you feel you can't. I've been through that. I think everyone has to some degree, regardless of their sexual orientation. Everyone has some small thing that seems terribly big to them when compared to social views of 'normalcy.'
The best thing to do is to not 'be' in the closet. It seems really, really hard I know.
This happened to me when I realized that there were really cool people, really smart and successful and confident, who everyone looked up to, and who also happened to be gay. It was a shocker. It got me out of the closet. It was still hard to do.
My advice is to seek out those people around you whom you can trust, and who have experience with being gay, and ask them to help.
2006-09-22 12:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Todd 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I was so depressed, I tried cutting, suicide, binge eating, the whole bag of horrors. The real question is... are you in the closet, and if so, are you considering yourself to be self- destructive? If so, you can get in touch with me.
2006-09-22 21:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by urbania05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am still in the closet. I didn't tell my family yet.
being destructive? well, yeah I was. I tried suicide more than 4 times, before coming out to my friends I consider close to me. after that, well I ain't anymore tryin it, even tho i still think about it sometimes...
2006-09-22 12:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by Gilno E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Like a lot of the rest of us I drank a lot. So be wise and keep an eye out for signs of stress or sadness. Go get help. Don't suffer in silence. And leave the drugs and booze alone. That's about as simple as I can put the truth.
2006-09-22 12:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 07:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you come out? I am too afraid to do it. I love my family and i want them to love me back for who i am not for how they think i should me. I am still in the closet. I want to tell them but I am really, i mean really afraid to do it. Can you give me some points on it? Can i have best answer? I need points. I am really afraid.
2006-09-26 08:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was suicidal because I couldn't get the closet door opened.
2006-09-22 20:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes im a cutter or at least i was. it's hard being in the closet and the worst part is its a continual process coming out i mean. but i think i can handle it
2006-09-22 14:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by lala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Mostly drinking way too much, but also having unhealthy relationships. Lots of emotional self-abuse too.
Luckily, I survived that stage and now am much healthier all the way around.
2006-09-22 13:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by wicked64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was, and it was awful. I tried to kill myself, I forced myself to sleep with men, believing that it would make me straight. I partook in reckless behavior because I couldn't deal with it inside. Now I'm out the closet, and it feels oh so much better to be free to be me :)
2006-09-22 14:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by Agent Double EL 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋