2006-09-22 11:58:21 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lying, alcoholism, mental abuse to my children & I. Finally, we (the kid's & I) had enough, I asked him to move out, threw my wedding ring away, let him come back for 3 night's a few week's later, he lied again, asked him to leave one last time. The following weekend, he was dead, he commited suicide. But I am not feeling sorry for the kid's & I, life is finally normal for us & everyone has adjusted very well. Don't mean to sound cold but it's the truth. My boyfriend, soon to be husband is a better "dad" to my kid's than my late husband coulda ever been, he was a sick man. No disrespect to my late husband!! RIP Jamie.
2006-09-22 12:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well before marriage there was a guy name D.. If you know what love is, please note I loved this man.. I had never wanted to move away from my hometown. I had started my career and my son was only 3 years old at the time. But because, I loved this man I would follow him to the end of the world. And when we arrived in the city we wasn't there 2 months before he was cheating on me. I was convinced that I had been used to get him to where HE wanted to be.. (Oh the mistakes we make when we so call love a person) But you live and you learn. One mans trash be the next man treasure. That's why I have a wonderful husband in my life. That seeks nothing more than my happiness.. He picked me up when I was let down..
2006-09-22 12:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by The'Truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By spitting on me, leaving me on the night of my birthday at dinner because I asked him why he was looking around so much, and by emotionally/mentally abusing me. It sucks when you are madly in love with someone and they don't feel or act the way you do. Lifes a gamble, you never know what you're going to get. Needless to say its only been a month and now I am in counseling and I feel great. Some days are hard but I know when I get home I dont have to listen to his constant bitching or complaining. Karma is a ***** and I believe he will get his...and I can't wait!!
2006-09-26 10:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kit Katt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By stopping caring, we never make love, kiss or cuddle, we barely speak, we live together under 1 roof but 2 separate lives, if I try change how things are he isn't bothered, his answer is if I don;t like it I know what to do !!!!. Great, not the way I thought we would be after 34 years. He doesn't even hold my hand.
2006-09-26 19:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
By preteding to be somewhere he was not. By bieng with other women, just before I gave birth to our son. By lying and cheating, and (what they do is a good one, they tell you you are paranoid, and it is all in your head...thats a goodie isn''t it) he let me down because i loved him and went to another country, pregnant with his baby and then realised, my fault maybe, bu he was too young to accept the responsibility. But, as the yanks say, you play house, you pay house. i got a few cheques, not many, anyway he is dead now he was 47 died of cancer and crack, i am 58 and am not dying yet, so lonley as I choose to be, I could have been lonely in mourning had I stayed with him, but boy, was he good looking, and our son is shiny and healthy, and unfortunately has gone back to the states. But, getting him outta there before I make enough money to blow usa up.
2006-09-27 13:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was military, went overseas for four months. (we were married almost 10 years) In that time he set the checkbook negative over one thousand dollars. As I sat there wondering why...everything over there is paid for...I found out after he came back that he had asked one of the natives who couldn't even speak much english...to marry him. I didn't know having two wives was legal. He took her out a whole bunch while I sat here wondering how I was gonna pay the heating bill. Nice guy.
2006-09-22 12:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE NOT HAD ANY men you loved more than anything
but do you think of this a friend i use to know went out with my sis, my cousin,and some next white girl ALL AT THE SAME TIME
HE was defietly a wolf in sheep clothing trust me
2006-09-30 07:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by L£X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where should I start, lets see while I was pregnant with our 2nd kid and at home taken care of the first..he was going out to strip bars, taking girls up to his hotel room and doing other things. He says he never cheated on me ( I guess he thinks I have stupid written on my forehead) lied to me about this for almost a year. Finally told me most of the truth after I had our son. Can be a very mean person, he told me I ruined his life and he will always hate me for that. When you think about it, it kind of makes you think why am I still here. For the kids mostly I guess
2006-09-27 01:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by Just another day 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my first childhood sweetheart (who i am not with now thankfully) developed a herion habbit and after 2 years of living with him i had to walk away and let him go, i was not strong enough to deal with it. I was too young and too naieve. He hurt me loads of ways in those 2 years and if i started to write it all out i would write an essay. Hard times those were. But i got over him and moved on to better things and he came off heroin and got on with his life and he is very happy now. All worked out in the end.
2006-09-22 12:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by 2plus3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man I devoted a few years of my life too. Signed up for the navy. Well he is under way right now and I found out today he is dating another woman...Lives with her. She thought he and I broke up but yeah news to her we werent seperated. yeahhh feels like a knife in my heart. Hmmm what to think....
2006-09-22 12:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by leaves_of_autumn171311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋