I Want My Friend Back, After Love Took Over Our Friendship. I Need Help!?

Question

I've been in a friendship for the past 10 months, he became my best friend, and eventually after spending time together all the time, I began having feelings for him. We lived the lives of people in relationships, but he didn't want that. We became intimate and that messed up the friendship even more. Now, we don't spend as much time together, and he has new female friends. I get jealous and take it out on him because I'm scared that they're going to take away my friend. He called me the other night, while he was in the car with a female "accidentally" and hung up. I got mad and text him that I wanted all the money he had just borrowed from me, along with every gift. He got mad, and said that he doesn't understand why I act like that because I'm not his girl and I can't get mad and take my stuff back because of that. He also stated that if I wasn't happy with the friendship, he would be happy with whatever decision I made. I was upset and told him that I was leaving it.

Answer 1

Sorry to tell you that you've discovered why no one can just be friends after any kind of relationship be it bf/gf or husband/wife or domestic partner/domestic partner. Once emotions - and I mean the real ones - are introduced, your friendship stepped into new type of friendship. Unfortunately, the doorway only opens one way. You'll always say you'll be friends but be honest to yourself. Is it the same? The answer is always no. If it wasn't, then you guys never went through the door in the first place.

Answer 2

Well, if he doesn't care about you leaving the friendship, drop him because he's not a good friend. But, if he does care, tell him how you feel about him.

Answer 3

say your sorry hope he forgives you then you have to come to terms with the fact he just wants to be friends

Answer 4

whats the question?