I've been in a friendship for the past 10 months, he became my best friend, and eventually after spending time together all the time, I began having feelings for him. We lived the lives of people in relationships, but he didn't want that. We became intimate and that messed up the friendship even more. Now, we don't spend as much time together, and he has new female friends. I get jealous and take it out on him because I'm scared that they're going to take away my friend. He called me the other night, while he was in the car with a female "accidentally" and hung up. I got mad and text him that I wanted all the money he had just borrowed from me, along with every gift. He got mad, and said that he doesn't understand why I act like that because I'm not his girl and I can't get mad and take my stuff back because of that. He also stated that if I wasn't happy with the friendship, he would be happy with whatever decision I made. I was upset and told him that I was leaving it.
2006-09-22 11:50:30 · 4 answers · asked by DaBossLady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
baby first thing what do u want from this relationship?...love or friendship...if u want ur friend back all u have to do is walk upto him and tell him you are sorry...but u have to understand that he is your "friend" not ur BF...one day he will have a girl in his life who will be more important than you...and if u want love...well then...then you need to walk up to him kiss him and let him know how u feel and why u r acting like this and getting jelous and all that...rest leave it to god...ggod luck...M
2006-09-22 11:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what I did when I was in a very similar situation: I knew I was in love with him and I knew deep down that he was in love with me so I decided that I would call him and just tell him that until I'm over him, we can't be friends but that I'll always hold him in the highest regard.
Try that and bow out gracefully. You'll get no where like this, I promise you.
2006-09-22 18:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that. Trust me. That was the biggest mistake I ever made. Tell him how you feel. Tell him you really love him. And if things don't work, You saved yourself future grief.
2006-09-22 18:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by existenceisrelative 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only thing i can say to that is say your sorry and hope he forgives you then you ave to come to terms with the fact that all you will be in friends.
2006-09-22 18:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋